Entry and Exit

I do not know is it a real problem, or is it an exaggeration of students who complain about the letters of entry and exit from public universities to parents ?! What is repeated from time to time raises astonishment, especially when it reaches out to pretexts and utter unacceptable words, in protest against the message system.

There are those who believe that these messages are useful, and reassure the guardian, and some believe that they mean suspicion and mistrust, which affects the personality of the student, and creates a sense of inability to take responsibility or manage her affairs wisely, and there is a third opinion demands that the system be applied to Students without discrimination.

I have learned from my experience in life that there are laws in place to remedy a particular problem, that the messaging system was implemented after there were transgressions blamed on the university, and I agree with some that the monitoring method may not prove successful, and that who wants to overtake will find a thousand ways On the other hand, there is a quality that will find itself obliged to commit against its will, because it is aware that there is accountability from parents.

It is nice to have mutual trust between the guardian and his sons, male and female, especially when they are approaching adulthood, but there is a ball rolling, which means that confidence is not absolute, there is deviation from the sexes because of this trust, which was not in place. The future at the moment of making the wrong decision regarding the educational process, or behavioral deviation that turns into a big problem that is difficult to address.

I know very well that there is a quality of parents who think of fossilized minds, and harder on girls than young people, and deal with the repulsive cruelty that makes life unbearable hell, but there are open channels and destinations ready to solve such problems, these solutions may not be ideal, but with the days must Legislation and laws are more serious in dealing with them. Let us be very clear that these issues are not resolved by rebelling against parents and by insulting those who disagree with them.

I think that the conclusion, in my view, on this subject, is not excessive or excessive in dealing with children, not in the radicalization or in the granting of freedom without restrictions, here I remember the philosopher Blaise Pascal's statement: «extremism leads to recklessness, and lead moderation to wisdom».

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