After the husband wakes up his "vegetative" wife, he wants to use his house car to see the world with her

■ In the early spring of 2021, 52-year-old Line Bixiu suffered a car accident and suffered severe intracranial damage.

■ In the past two years, under the careful care of her family, she has woken up from a vegetative state, extubated to being able to speak simply, creating "miracles".

■ But the life of the nine dead is not simply to suppress first and then rise, but behind it is a living reality, a day-to-day struggle. The bad luck left a wound that was difficult to heal, but Li Jiabin, the husband of Bixiu, decided to move forward - using his house car to carry his wife to fulfill his desire to see the world.

■ The road is at your feet, and hope will continue.

1 "I thought it was over"

Li Jiabin may not be able to immediately remember his wedding anniversary, but he clearly remembers the day that changed the fate of the whole family.

At 2021 p.m. on March 3, 27, on Jiannan Avenue in Chengdu, a runaway car rushed towards his wife's vehicle from the opposite side. She sat in the back, unfastened her seat belt, and the huge impact made her soar into the air, hitting her head against the longitudinal pillars between the front and rear doors of the car.

When he arrived at the scene, Li Jiabin saw his wife lying on her back on the road, with blood flowing from her nose, ears, and corners of her mouth. The first time he learned that the bleeding was real, he "thought it was all over."

After several major and minor surgeries, doctors said that the probability of recovery from severe closed head injury is small, and it is necessary to be prepared to become a vegetative person.

In the three months after the accident, Li Jiabin crouched by the bed every day and whispered to his wife: "Sister Line, come back, we are all waiting for you." "He put his phone at the end of his wife's bed and played the songs "I'm going to hold you" and "You're coming back" on a loop." It's not easy for two people to come together, how can you give up easily..."

The effort will always revererate.

One day, Li Jiabin found that his wife's eyes suddenly opened a slit, and his fingers also reacted, and he was ecstatic. After the doctor's diagnosis, it was determined that Bixiu's physical function gradually recovered, and the doctor was also surprised, "This is simply a miracle."

For Li Jiabin, the long spring of 2021 has finally come to an end. The grass outside the window was green, and he hadn't stepped out of the hospital gate for three months.

Due to cerebral infarction, Line Bixiu's right eye was blind, her right ear was deaf, one side of her body was paralyzed, and her brain was also affected, and her thoughts and expressions were like babies. But to wake up, Li Jiabin already felt very lucky.

2 Carry it with your wife

Although she woke up, her body was extremely weak, and the inflammation in her body did not subside. In order to ensure that there were no accidents, Li Jiabin and his son stayed in front of the hospital bed in two shifts, and Li Jiabin stayed at night.

Every night, through the lights in the corridor outside, Li Jiabin saw a large amount of mucus spraying from his wife's nose, mouth and trachetomy, wetting the clothes on her chest. He got up again and again and used a straw to help his wife suck out the filth.

Every time at this time, he remembered his wife's kindness more and more.

Once on a night train, the two returned to Sichuan from Qinghai. Late at night, lonely mountains, heavy rain, thunder and lightning from time to time cut through the night sky. It was terrifyingly dark, and his wife sat in the co-pilot to accompany him, and set up a dragon gate array all the way until dawn...

The business lost money and he couldn't sleep all night. Without saying a word, his wife sold the shop and repaid the debt of more than 100 million yuan. There was not a word of reproach from beginning to end, only fear that he would worry too much and hurt his body.

"Proving time and time again that she won't let me carry things alone." Li Jiabin is even more determined, now that his wife is in trouble, he must also carry it with his wife, because their destinies have long been closely linked.

3 A man's resilience

In the past two years, Bixiu has undergone surgery for dipstick bone reduction and sinusitis, and after extubation to seal air resection and gastric tube, the pain has been reduced and her consciousness has become much clearer.

A week ago, Bixiu was finally discharged from the hospital and returned to her long-separated home. Li Jiabin's 24-hour day is also cut into regular schedules. Massage for his wife in the morning, cook pumpkin, beef, chicken and other ingredients at noon, mix it with broth and put it in a wall breaker to make a liquid food. Every few hours, change diapers and scrub your body.

His wife couldn't leave, so he bought a month's worth of ingredients at once and put them in the refrigerator to minimize going out. The outdoors had been his passion, and since something happened at home, he hasn't moved around the house all day.

Twenty or thirty years ago, the little couple started by frying fritters on the street and slowly opened a Chinese restaurant with more than 20 tables. Li Jiabin is in charge of the spoon and his wife is in charge of the side dishes, often busy until late at night, "occasionally like to hold hands and walk in the evening breeze."

In the early years, Li Jiabin was obsessed with motorcycles, his wife bought him one, he rode around, played until late at night and came back, and his wife never asked. He knew that this was his wife's fulfillment and her trust in him. This sentiment made him feel more distressed for his wife and strengthened his belief in caring for him.

4 Change the RV and want to continue to show her the world

Many seriously ill patients are discharged home, only to go from their hospital beds to their beds at home. The rest of their lives are confined to a corner of their home, and the world outside the window seems to have nothing to do with them.

But Li Jiabin didn't want his wife to do this. He knew what kind of person his wife was.

After 2010, the two stopped the Chinese restaurant business, bought an RV and began traveling across the country. From Lugu Lake to Chaka Salt Lake, from snowy mountains to water towns, the two enjoyed the feeling of being on the road at any time.

In the ancient town of Yunnan, seeing local women washing clothes in the stream, Line Bixiu also went to experience it. Around the campfire, she made donkey friends from Tiannanhai Bei. Lee knows that she loves fresh, tireless life...

A few days ago, Mr. Lee sold his old RV and bought a new RV and modified it to suit his wife more closely – more spacious beds, larger toilets, and seats that extend outside the door.

Li Jiabin planned his trip with his wife little by little.

Chengdu Business Daily-Red Star News reporter Du Yuquan

Intern reporter Zhang Zhiyi photo report