Train yourself to be proud..
Dr..
Yousef al-Sharif
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November 16, 2022
One of the most difficult human or social concepts to understand or comprehend is the concept of “self-esteem.” Therefore, very few realize how to make their personalities dear to themselves, and stop humiliating themselves with or without payment. In this discussion, I will not address the religious concepts of self-esteem despite the importance of that. But I want to present a different point of view so that we can deepen this concept and apply it in our lives to enhance the concept of self-esteem we have. Its consequences and the difficulty of his path, despite his success in all circumstances and times.
Unfortunately, many of us have lost this characteristic and this concept today, so we find around us many people who are fully prepared to sell themselves for anything, you find them at work humbling themselves to their manager and those responsible for them, “painting the belt,” as we say colloquially, “for what is equal and what is not,” believing that they are Thus, they buy themselves to become of value, and we also find them in commercial dealings trying to swindle, deceive, lie and deceive in order to obtain money, as if this money will make them or raise their destiny, but in fact they are exposed in front of people and they have no value or their money, these people will not stop Humiliating themselves no matter how high they climb, and they will continue to pant and run after creating their value, but they are very far away, because the path they took will not lead them to what they want, no matter what they do.
One of the simplest and closest definitions that I find suitable for self-esteem is to know, learn and learn how to honor yourself in everything in your life, in the way you earn your livelihood and also in the way you spend and manage your money. Self-esteem also lies in the way you deal with others and the limits of your relationships with them, and in your avoidance of relationships and emotions that may harm you that may make you humiliated and captive to them.
It was said that the richness of the soul for those who are wise is better than the riches of money, and the one who said is not only true that the richness of the soul is better than the richness of money only, but also that this matter is only understood by those who are wise, for few are those who look at self-esteem as a skill that may earn you a lot without trouble.
While attempts to sell and humiliate oneself will not lead you to any result, no matter what you do, and the sane person is the one who realizes that everything in life must be volunteered to serve himself, elevate it, and preserve it from any harm, whether it is physical or emotional harm.
As the poet said: “Be dear to yourself and do not care, for everything perishes and the Most High God remains. What will you gain in your life? Show me if you lose human dignity.”
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