Families live in exceptional circumstances that may not be repeated after more than a month has passed on home separation, as individuals spend most of the day together, exposing behaviors that family members did not know about each other, and others found a way to get to know again to a life partner, while Others were able to discover completely different details of life inside the home than they thought while they were busy outside.

Nadia Murad (an employee from Dubai) considers this period, which she lives with her husband, “a period of discovery for each other, so our marriage did not go through only simple months,” noting that most of the new marriage relationships need long periods, in order for the two partners to know each other “except that The crisis of the newly created Corona greatly reduced this period, as we became closer and more familiar with each other, as well as more interested in the details of my daily habits, and my participation in them as well.

Greater appreciation

Umm Hamdan (an employee from Dubai, and a mother of three children) is often referred to as the "super woman" between her family and her friends, as she is always keen to have an ideal performance in various areas of family life, whether in the responsibilities of the home, or children, or a life partner, which is what He, as she put it, often puts her under great pressure, feeling that she is solely responsible for it.

She added: “However, recently, I feel that the matter is very different, as my husband became more interested in meeting the needs of the home, providing what we want, and avoiding that we needed something necessary, and he became more aware of the responsibilities that fall on me from home and abroad. ».

Marriage is past

On the other hand, domestic isolation helped Youssef Ahmed (a businessman from Dubai) to see marriage from a different perspective from the previous, “The husband’s view of his family life was back to old (the wife is indispensable). With isolation, marital disputes turn into a mere discussion, avoiding "Both sides have a strong clash, hoping that the day will pass as positive as possible, as there is no alternative or escape outside the home."

Ahmed pointed out that the situation was different previously: “Often the man would flee the house, and the problems remain pending and in a continuous accumulation leading to the explosion after a period of time, while the problems end today as soon as they take up space and time, I discovered that my wife does not need a lot of The effort to be satisfied, it is a great positive, which made me in return, and with the passage of time, also positive, and appreciating my marital life with her ».

Real family

For its part, the first tolerant expert and president of the Society for Humanitarian Studies in Dubai, Dr. Fatima Al-Derby, told «Emirates Today» that household isolation will help the return of family wrapping, and increase family bonding and cohesion among individuals, is one of the most important positive aspects of these exceptional circumstances, considering that they are "An ideal period and a golden opportunity for parents to come out with coherent and interconnected families and turn this ordeal into a grant."

Dr. Fatima advised the mother and father to allocate times for each family member «separately, and set aside other times for the family to gather together in a healthy and positive way, as the mother needs, as the father needs, to take a special space for her in the day, whether for care or reading, or whatever it is The preferred way to have a special and positive time, which helps to provide a useful and healthy group time when sitting with the children. ”

She explained that there are many husbands, who suffer from a cold life, after many years have passed since marriage. “I believe that this period of domestic isolation should come with a positive side, which will restore the atmosphere of renewal in the relationship, proximity and communication between them.”

Go causes of jealousy

The human development consultant, Dr. Saud Abdulaziz Al-Najjar, enumerated a set of positives imposed by domestic isolation, including the evacuation of one of the most important reasons for a woman's jealousy of her husband at work «which was revealed by remote work, and virtual meetings, which showed the importance and nature of the work and his team, and I went one of the reasons Jealousy and suspicion from coworkers, and in return, the period showed the importance of the wife's role in the home.

Al-Najjar added to «Emirates Today»: «For the first time, we are all committed to one case that included under the same circumstance, and after analyzing the general situation of what families live, it is possible to come up with some positive results for the two partners and the family.

Wholesale positives

The Human Development Consultant, Dr. Saud Abdulaziz Al-Najjar, considered that the period of house isolation will be full of positives, and enumerated a group including:

Realizing the large gap caused by the concerns of life, which leads both spouses in that isolation to approach each other.

- The dissolution of the marriage contract, so doubts diminished, and thoughts of divorce were haunted and hastened to it.

- Increased closeness, interest and communication with children, and having a sufficient opportunity for them to express their thoughts.

The feeling of happiness and contentment that group participation leaves, whether in business, games or nice parties, which enhances the feeling of family bonding, away from preoccupation with technology.

- Isolation promoted in the soul the idea of ​​the first home (the house), which will bring great results later.

The real feeling of the value of the mother in the home, that it contains everyone, and the bearing of the effect of isolation on them.

- Having an opportunity to renew and restore the sparkle of the relationship between the two partners, and to address what their emotional and family relationship is going through.

Fatima Al-Derby: “An ideal period, and a golden opportunity for parents to come out with coherent and interconnected families and turn this ordeal into a grant.”