Wednesday in the show "Without Rendez-Vous" on Europe 1, the sexologist Catherine Blanc responds to a listener who fears that the size of his penis does not scare.

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And if sometimes the size, it mattered? In pornographic films, it often seems advantageous to have or have to deal with a big penis. And in real life? At the microphone of Melanie Gomez, in Europe, without appointment , sexologist Catherine Blanc explains that sometimes there are precautions to take in this case to flourish in his sexuality.

Serge's question

I have a very big sex, which was admired in the locker room. Today, I am rather uncomfortable in my sexual relations. I'm afraid to worry, to hurt, and see him as a handicap. What do you think ?

Catherine Blanc's answer

"We always think that micropenis are problematic, but conversely, too big a penis can be too, just because it does not appear in the fantasized representations of people, or that it arouses comments in the locker room, that is easy in sexuality, you must be able to penetrate, and not scare the other to be penetrated.

When can we say that a sex is too big?

It's not really a matter of centimeters. The fact is, if in the locker room, it forced admiration, it was because the boys around had to consider that this one was a good size. There are also confusions not to do. An erect penis or a flaccid penis do not necessarily give the same size. There are penises that are only inflated when they are erect, and therefore keep the same size. And there are penises that are very small in flaccid state and extend when they are erect.

Are we really limited, when we have a very big penis, for example in sexual positions or in the duration of the report?

A vagina has a high elasticity capacity, a baby can get out. A rectum does not have the same capacity at all, without a considerable prior relaxation. Because it is a muscle, unlike the vagina. What I find interesting is that in this case, we are forced to make the case of the other, to be in a relationship of goodwill, where we accompany the necessary opening.

Should Serge tell his partner?

If this is his concern, it must be said. But there is always the risk of being answered "in these conditions, not at all". I think we should rather say, "with my penis, we can do a lot of things". And if you make friend-friend, things go peacefully ...