A Bin and his wife took their son to play in the park, and saw the news report "Mother wants to cut the liver to save the 28-year-old son and find non-blood relatives" from the mobile phone. Looking at the first article, he felt that the characters inside looked like himself; when he saw the second article, he was convinced that he was the protagonist of "wrong life".
He closed his eyes and sat in the park for more than ten minutes, "feeling blank in his mind."
After A Bin knew his life, his biological mother Du Ping was very worried. On April 25, she got through her son's mobile phone. This is the first time she has spoken with her biological son.
"I am from Zhumadian, you should know who I am, I am your mother." After connecting, Du Ping spoke for a while.
On April 30, Du Ping and his biological son A Bin met in Jiujiang. The surging news reporter Zhu Yuanxiang
Hug, tears, reunion, sickness ... On the evening of April 30, the Du Ping couple who rushed from Zhumadian, Henan to Jiujiang, Jiangxi, finally saw their separated son, A Bin, who had been separated for 28 years; Ming, also met and hugged his biological parents.
Twenty-eight years ago, Guo Ming and A Bin were both born in Huaihe Hospital of Henan University. Since then, the two have grown up in families in Henan and Jiangxi respectively, and the two do not know each other. In February 2020, A Bin was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer. His mother prepared to cut the liver to save her son, but found that his son was not his own. Later DNA identification showed that A Bin and Guo Ming were "swapped" between their parents 28 years ago.
Surging News (www.thepaper.cn) recently learned from the Kaifeng Municipal Health and Health Commission that local officials are investigating the matter.
On April 30, A Bin and Guo Ming, who "changed their lives", met. The surging news reporter Zhu Yuanxiang
"This is like acting, I didn't expect that I would become the protagonist in the play." Guo Ming sighed. On April 30, he and A Bin met for the first time, and the two embraced and laughed.
A Bin said, "We are closer than our brothers."
Blood group test leads to parent-child doubt cloud
"AB" type, this is the result of A Bin blood type test.
In mid-March 2020, A Bin was examined at Zhongshan Hospital of Fudan University. His mother Jiang Yanli almost screamed when she got her blood type test sheet.
"How could my son be of type AB?" Jiang Yanli, who studied medicine, knew that both his and his lover's blood types were type A. "It is impossible for two types of A to produce type AB."
Jiang Yanli asked A Bin to test the blood type in preparation for liver transplantation. In February of this year, A Bin felt abdominal and back pain, went to the hospital for examination, and was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer with portal vein tumor thrombus.
"He is my lifeblood, and I will treat him even if I sell blood." Jiang Yanli said that after her son was treated in Nanchang for a period of time, she hung an expert number at Zhongshan Hospital of Fudan University and took her son to Shanghai for consultation . Experts recommended a liver transplant, and Jiang Yanli decided to provide her liver to A Bin.
"I'm over 50 years old, I don't care." Jiang Yanli said: "We are just such a son, only 20 years old, his life is just starting, his son is more than two years old. If something goes wrong, how does his family of three live? Go on? "
At that time, the doctor asked Jiang Yanli not to rush to "harm herself", but to wait for other liver sources. In order to prepare for the next operation, the doctor tested A Bin's blood type, and the result was type AB.
"Will there be too many patients checked by the big hospital, and it was wrong." Jiang Yanli did not believe the results of A Bin's blood group test. After returning home, she took A Bin's blood sample and sent it to other hospitals for examination on the grounds of "missing a routine blood test". The result was still type AB. Later, after consulting with her husband, she sent her blood sample and her son's blood sample to a judicial appraisal agency in Nanchang for DNA identification.
On March 26, the DNA identification results came out and did not support Jiang Yanli as A Bin's biological mother.
Upon learning of the appraisal results, Jiang Yanli felt soft and collapsed to the ground. During that time, she didn't think about tea and rice, and her hair was much whiter.
With a pair of small eyes and a single eyelid, A Bin, who is one meter seven and five in height, does not look much like Jiang Yanli and his wife, but Jiang Yanli has never doubted his blood relationship with his son.
The Jiang Yanli couple decided to hide their sick son first. Jiang's husband Yao Jun is a retired soldier, and he is calmer than his wife. On March 30, he came to the hospital where A Bin was born-Huaihai Hospital of Henan University in Kaifeng City, took out the birth certificate, DNA identification report and other materials, asked the hospital to give an explanation and help find the child's biological parents.
Both A Bin and Guo Ming were born in Huaihe Hospital of Henan University 28 years ago. The surging news reporter Zhu Yuanxiang
"After I reported to the leader, the leader was very shocked and attached great importance." Zhang Peng, director of the Medical and Patient Office of Huaihai Hospital in Henan University, told Peng Pai News that there were no electronic medical records in the hospital more than 20 years ago. The medical records were handwritten and the hospital experienced a name change For the second affiliated hospital of Kaifeng Medical College), the relocation of the medical record room, etc., it is difficult to find the original data. The hospital arranged 10 staff members to search for relevant information. A few days later, they found relevant information about Abin ’s birth in the obstetrics department. The identity of the suspect was “swapped” and was delineated as three other boys born during the same period. With the help, the target was initially set for the Guo Mings who settled in Zhumadian City.
Du Ping's inpatient medical record when he gave birth to a son in the hospital. The surging news reporter Zhu Yuanxiang
"At that time, someone called me and asked him what he wouldn't say, and I had to interview." Guo Ming's father, Guo Renkuan, said that he thought he was a township cadre from his hometown and invited him to go back to the village party secretary, and later checked with the village cadres. After that, he no longer answers the other party's call. Not long after, Guo Renkuan's wife Du Ping also received the call. "The caller said what medical malpractice was involved, and said that my child might be wrong." Du Ping said angrily: "When I heard it, it must have been a swindle. How could my child be wrong?"
Du Ping also called his son Guo Ming to ask. Guo Ming, who was working as an auxiliary police officer at the police station, thought it was a telecommunication fraud and asked his parents to black out the other party's number.
At that time, it was Yao Jun and others who called Guo Renkuan and his wife. Later, Yao Jun called 110 to call for help. With the help of a police station in Zhumadian City Public Security Bureau, Yao Jun finally found Guo Ming—tall as he was, with a square face and thick eyebrows.
Coincidentally, Guo Ming was an auxiliary police officer in the aforementioned police station involved in the tracing.
Two pairs of parents, two sons
Yao Jun is a man of steady character. He saw Guo Ming appear, and he was delighted, but he was still not sure that the other party was his own son. "Everything must be proved by evidence."
On April 17, Yao Jun got a DNA identification report-supporting Yao Jun and his wife as Guo Ming's biological parents.
That day, the Yao Jun couple immediately rushed from Jiujiang to Zhumadian by high-speed rail. When he saw Guo Ming who was coming to greet him at the station, Jiang Yanli rushed to hug him and could not help crying.
"It always feels like a dream, incredible." Guo Ming, who speaks Henan dialect, told Peng Pai News that at first he didn't believe in his life experience. Later, when he saw the DNA identification report, he had to believe it.
How to tell this information to parents who have raised themselves for 28 years? Guo Ming has been in conflict for a long time. His father was 62 years old, and his mother of 56 had just had a liver tumor resection operation in late March this year. Later, Guo Ming's wife encouraged her husband to "long pain is worse than short pain." Guo Ming found an opportunity to get along alone and told his father the DNA test results of his and Yao Jun's couple. At that time, Guo Ming also asked his doctor's wife to prepare a quick-acting rescue heart pill to prevent his father's heart from going wrong.
"After raising for nearly 30 years, you said that it was not my son. I couldn't stand it." Guo Renkuan told Pengpao News that Guo Ming had looked like him since childhood and had a physical appearance and personality. "Even walking is like me. Road. "Guo Renkuan stood up excitedly and demonstrated the walking posture to the reporter.
But Guo Renkuan had to accept the "scientific" conclusion of DNA identification. He wanted to hide his seriously ill wife for the time being. But when his eyes were flushed and he didn't stop running water to rinse his eyes to cover up, his wife Du Ping asked, he had to tell the truth.
That night, Guo Ming expressed his parents: "You will always be my father and mother, and my feelings for you will not change." Du Ping resisted the grief and hugged his son-Guo Ming grew up, she was still the first Hug him again.
The son who has been with him for 28 years is not his own, which is a great blow to Du Ping. During that time, Du Ping had to take sleeping pills every day to fall asleep. "Whether you believe it or not, you don't believe it. The facts are before you."
The first child of the Du Ping couple was a daughter. He was born with hypoxic head and had intellectual disabilities since childhood. Later, he developed schizophrenia and could not take care of himself. When the second child was born, Du Ping chose to go to the best hospital in Kaifeng at that time-the Second Affiliated Hospital of Kaifeng Medical College. "I didn't expect such a thing to happen."
Du Ping and his wife used to work in a local department store in their early years. After being laid off, they contracted in a canteen and opened a small restaurant. After graduation, his son Guo Ming worked in interior design, and joined the public security team three years ago to become an auxiliary police. After Du Ping and his wife retired, they mainly looked after their mentally ill daughters and helped their sons and daughters-in-law to bring their children—their granddaughter was 5 years old and the grandson was almost 2 years old.
Today, the son is not a "son", which makes it difficult for the Du Ping couple to accept, "the thing that hasn't happened once in a thousand years, can't accept it emotionally." The couple is relieved that the real biological son has landed. On April 21, the results of the DNA identification showed that Guo Renkuan and Du Ping were the biological parents of A Bin.
In this way, the true identities and roles of A Bin and Guo Ming have been dramatically "interchanged".
After learning that A Bin had liver cancer, Du Ping was sad. She later encouraged herself to insist on treating liver disease, "I want to be strong, I want to see my son. I'm afraid I haven't seen my son, I will fall."
Du Ping and his wife also discussed with Jiang Yanli and his wife. Don't tell A Bin about her life experience for the time being.
Jiang Yanli also struggled for a long time in her heart. "I feel that everything is dreaming. After waking up, everything may return to its original state." For the past 28 years, the only son, A Bin, was her spiritual sustenance.
A Bin has a bright personality since childhood, loves to play basketball and football, and likes to watch Zhou Xingchi's movies. The academic performance is also good, studying in the best primary and secondary schools in the local area. After graduating from university, he worked in an enterprise in Shanghai, and later came out to start his own business, trying to be an e-commerce in Ningbo.
Abin's marriage room was bought by his parents for 780,000 yuan. In order to raise the purchase price, Jiang Yanli and his wife had sold their house and lived together with the elderly. A Bin then had a small family of three-a virtuous wife and a son who was two and a half years old.
In February this year, A Bin was diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, and the entire family was in a state of panic for a while. The results of the appraisal two months later showed that A Bin had no blood relationship with his 28-year-old parents.
The Jiang Yanli and his wife silently endured these, and dared not tell A Bin.
On April 25, A Bin took his wife and son to play in the park. He saw news reports about him from his mobile phone. Seeing the first one, he felt that the characters inside looked like himself. When he saw the second one, he was convinced that he was the protagonist of "wrong life".
At that moment, he closed his eyes and sat in the park for more than ten minutes, "feeling a blank mind."
Recognize relatives, pursue responsibility, save lives
After his biological son A Bin knew his life, Du Ping was very worried about him. That day she got through her son's mobile phone. This is the first time she has spoken with her biological son.
After connecting the phone, Du Ping said after a while: "I am from Zhumadian, you should know who I am, I am your mother." A Bin called him "Mother Du" and asked her body Happening. Du Ping told his son that he will not drag him down in the future, but will also help him, "You continue your life, but you have an extra parental care."
Through the phone, Du Ping calmed down after a long time, "I am worried that the child will give up treatment, and the phone call is to make him firm in confidence."
On April 27, Du Ping reviewed the recovery after hepatectomy in a hospital in Zhengzhou. After the CT examination in the morning, she and her husband walked out of the ward building and met with the surging news reporter. Before the meeting, Du Ping transferred 10,000 yuan to A Bin from WeChat and asked him to buy some supplements to eat. A Bin began to refuse to accept it. Du Ping said, "If you don't accept it, I'm not at ease." A Bin only accepted it later.
"He said that Mom Du should have taken care of you. You should take good care of your body, work hard to recover, and live alive." Du Ping read his son's message on WeChat, his voice choked.
"I want to inspire my child's enthusiasm for life. Both parents are concerned about him." Du Ping said, "My son is not fighting alone, we all fight with him."
On April 30, Du Ping was discharged from the hospital early in the morning. She wanted to go to Jiangxi to visit her son before returning to hospital for treatment. On the morning of the same day, she and her husband, son Guo Ming's family, as well as 14 relatives, departed from Henan Zhumadian in four vehicles. Eight hours later, at 6 o'clock in the evening, a group of people arrived at the hotel near Jiujiang Railway Station-the local area is still under the control period of the new coronary pneumonia epidemic.
Du Ping wore a dark skirt, dotted with colorful round spots. Surrounded by her sister's help and a group of reporters, she walked up the stairs to the second floor. A Bin is waiting here. He is wearing a casual sportswear and looks very youthful.
"My son ..." Du Ping saw A Bin, suddenly burst into tears, and the two stepped forward to hug.
"I think ..." Du Ping gasped, wiped her tears, and said with a smile: "I think my son is more handsome than the picture." A Bin also smiled, holding his mother's shoulder with one hand and holding his own. The mask was ripped off and the mother looked carefully.
A Bin and his biological father Yao Jun, Guo Ming and their biological parents Jiang Yanli and his wife all embraced and greeted everyone, and their eyes turned red. A Bin and Guo Ming shook hands and then hugged, and the two smiled at each other.
"We have the same experience, we are brothers who are closer than brothers." A Bin said. Guo Ming also praised this younger brother who was born one day later than him, "more cheerful and sunny than I imagined."
Du Ping and Jiang Yanli both met their young grandchildren. For the two parents, this is the greatest relief.
The two family members sat next to each other and took a "Family Portrait". Many media reporters at the scene witnessed this 28-year cross-province recognition.
After recognition of the relatives, the questioning about "wrong life" continues.
28 years ago, on June 15, 1992, Jiang Yanli, who was visiting relatives in Kaifeng, Henan, rushed to the Second Affiliated Hospital of Kaifeng Medical College (later renamed Henan University Huaihe Hospital) and gave birth to a son that afternoon. The next day, Du Ping, who was hospitalized in the same obstetrics, also gave birth to a son. Family members on both sides confirmed that after the child was born, the nurse took care of the baby room and only came over when he was discharged from the hospital.
Du Ping and Jiang Yanli both believed that it was the medical staff who held the wrong child before the two children "changed" their parents by mistake. The two mothers also questioned that in the past, medical staff did not take measures to prevent and block hepatitis B virus in time for the child based on the mother's inspection situation. As a result, A Bin became a hepatitis B virus carrier since childhood, and he is now diagnosed with liver cancer.
Regarding the doubts of the children's family, the staff of Henan University Huaihe Hospital and Kaifeng City Health and Health Committee both told Peng Mei News that they are still investigating and the results will be announced in time.
"In any case, this has become a tragedy." Zhang Peng, director of the Medical and Patient Office of the Huaihe Hospital of Henan University, told Pengpai News that the hospital will perform "the responsibility of a public hospital" for the treatment of A Bin.
How to treat A Bin, who has been diagnosed with advanced liver cancer, is currently the most concerned and worried thing for the two people.
Jiang Yanli said that for the treatment of A Bin for more than two months, the family spent about 400,000 yuan and has owed a lot of debts, and the post-treatment may require millions of yuan. She has given the only house in her family to an intermediary company to sell, and strives to raise money to help her child.
The early savings of Du Ping and his wife bought Guo Ming's wedding room. Now her couple's monthly retirement wages add up to less than 5,000 yuan. Du Ping told reporters that if she knew that her son was sick, her own liver disease would not be cured, and she could save money.
When he recognized his relatives on April 30, A Bin felt some pain in his abdomen. Fortunately, he took painkillers in advance. In front of reporters and parents, he tried to maintain a relaxed and happy look.
"I hope that the healthiest and liveliest side is displayed in front of them." A Bin said,
He felt guilty for the love of his parents on both sides. "The more they love me, the more I owe."
He said that he thought of how to make up for and repay in the future, "I just have more than enough energy, but I don't have enough power.
(Note: Why protect personal privacy, both family members in this article are pseudonyms)
Surging News Reporter Zhu Yuanxiang