A lesson about you and forgetting

Dr..

Yousef al-Sharif

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October 26 2022

Opinions and points of view may differ a lot between us and others, whether they are friends, colleagues, relatives, or even partners in life.

How do we go back to our lives properly?

Or more precisely, how do we restore our relations as they were?

Perhaps this is one of the most difficult questions we ask ourselves at a time of disagreement, and we may not find answers to it.. In this question, I wanted to offer you a lesson that might benefit you and make your relations more balanced.

Most of the time, unfortunately, we judge the people around us by their names;

From our relationship with them, we look at our manager in the image of the authoritarian commanding the prohibition, and we look at our father in his paternal image, as well as we look at our life partner in the image of the oppressor and the oppressed, and the same thing when we expand our circle, we find that all around us we have a specific impression of them, even if they are not within our social circle So you will find us judging our influencers, thinkers, opinions, and celebrities from the same perspective and premise, as if we forget that they are all people to whom the laws of humanity and humanity apply, and there is no escaping that, no matter how high or small their ranks, for everyone is governed by the same laws, temperaments, and qualities, albeit to varying degrees.

When we disagree, we look at the person with whom we disagreed from the perspective of the relationship that binds us with him, if he is a friend we look at him as a friend, and if he is a partner we look at him as a partner, and if he is a father we look at him as a father, but although the characteristic or the form of the relationship has great importance in Determining such matters, but if we look at the other party as a human being, we can see the issue from a different angle. It stems from a person who may be angry, weak, or satisfied and unable to provide help, then we will realize that our anger at him or our resentment against him is not necessarily in the same way we put him in our minds.

I mentioned the issue of disagreement with the father because it may shorten many things and similarities in our societal relations. There are many who are prejudiced against their father for doing something, forgetting that in the end he is a human being with feelings and rights, and he has the right to act as he wants, as long as he does not infringe on anyone’s rights. The same issue is in our disagreement with our life partners. We admonish them, discriminate against them, and get angry with them, without looking at the human aspects that they are on.

By nature, man is a mistake, makes mistakes, gets angry, grieves, goes through circumstances that may affect him, and if we looked at every action or reaction from a human perspective, we would realize many things, and we would have shortened a great deal of time in dealing with many of the problems that we face in our dealings.

When we put human considerations as one or as part of our analysis of any situation we are exposed to, then we will be able to remedy the imbalance, create balance in our relationships, and also repair the harm or aggression we have caused to others, while at the same time we will reconcile with ourselves, and realize the impact of humanity on our actions and relationships This may be difficult to implement, but at least take these aspects into consideration in your relations with your immediate surroundings;

With your sons and daughters, your fathers and mothers, your husbands and wives, your friends and girlfriends, these people have a right upon us to understand their motives, so that we do not judge them unfairly, and let us look at them with the human eye, and this is a lesson “beware of forgetting.”

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