It is a scourge that I do not think has any cure. It is possible to destroy the scorn many lives, it is the cause of many divorces, and leads to the decision to make decisions against the logic and reason sometimes, as we saw in the great artist Farid Shawqi series «Bakhil and I», where he was very stupid hide his money for his children and his wife and live In hunger and extreme poverty, which made his daughter marry only to escape hunger. Al-Jahiz has documented many stories about the abject and the ignorant in his work «Bakhla», and has forbidden the Koran in more than Surat al-Baqal, as well as the Messenger, peace be upon him, the poor.
The story of Hetty Green, who lived in New York with her wretched face and strange clothes, was called "Wall Street Witch," for her haughtiness and poverty, but in fact this lady was Owns 3.8 billion dollars. Hetty was born to a wealthy family. She was the only daughter of a financier. Her son was amputated and her car was amputated. A car hit him and he was severely injured. She took him to a free clinic. When doctors asked her to pay, she refused and took her son home. His condition worsened, eventually leading to amputation of his leg!
This scourge is not limited to physical shame and scarcity in terms of spending money only, but it is always associated with emotional emptiness to the extent that the scrawny thickened skin thick does not feel ashamed and can not even say a word of thanks, isolates people so that they do not have to participate in social duties and courtesies , And therefore deals only with the scoundrels like him, and easy to discover the scoundrel, as his behavior is very clear and his fear of spending seems clear and obvious, and makes no effort to hide it. I have had an experience with one of them for a while, and although he is so good, he was so stupid that he lived without an air conditioner at temperatures above forty-six so he did not pay a high electricity bill and economized on his food in an unimaginable way. But if he was invited to a restaurant He would not pay for it. He would have chosen the highest meal, the most expensive and the most expensive. One of the lessons learned is that there is no cure for the poor. If your luck is bad and you start with a stingy person, either you can live with this situation, do not complain or run away with your skin, but attempts at change are useless.
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