"Community Development" in Dubai: Parents' struggles are paid by children

Father regains custody of his two children after 4 years of abuse

Authority specialists noted that the two children were abused and neglected.

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The father of two children succeeded in regaining custody of them after four years of efforts led by the Community Development Authority in Dubai, during which it revealed that the two children were subjected to abuse and physical harm by the incubator “the mother”.

The authority confirmed that its experience in implementing the provisions of the vision of the children in custody of the children of divorce has proven that the failure to manage the dispute between the divorced people and their inability to reach an understanding to protect the interests of their children, children pay the price for abuse, and psychological and moral defects.

The Director of the Family Cohesion Department in the authority, Dr. Abdulaziz Al Hammadi, told «Emirates Today» the story for the purpose of awareness, and kept many details out of respect for privacy, saying that the story of the two children is an example of many problems that arise as a result of a lack of understanding between divorced people on how to protect their children after Separation, which results in negative effects on the psychological and health stability of children.

He stated that the follow-up to the vision file of the two children began when the vision was the right of the father, and it was a somewhat stable vision and allowed the mother to take the two children outside during the time of the vision, and after several months, the mother was sentenced to custody of the two children, and the authority was informed of the decision to implement the vision, which allows the father to see the two children and take them outside the authority’s headquarters .

Al Hammadi clarified that the implementation of the judgment of seeing the child in custody is carried out at the authority’s headquarters by order of the court, in order to avoid handing over the children to be seen in the courthouse, or police stations.

He added that the authority began to monitor observations during its implementation of the ruling on seeing the two children in the interest of the father, which revealed that the two children were neglected, which appeared in the lack of personal hygiene of hair and nails, and their wearing unclean clothes, adding that the specialized team noticed a change in the behavior of the two children and they started using impolite words, and they dealt with With aggressive behavior, to the point of quarreling together during their presence in the vision.

He added that the manifestations of neglect have become permanent for the two children, and minor signs were discovered on the two children’s bodies as a result of the incubator’s abuse of them, “the mother,” according to the testimony of the children in custody, stressing that the follow-up team for the two children learned that the custodian had received the same notes from the school of the two children, in addition to a significant drop in their grades. school and neglect them to follow the lessons and do not deliver the required duties.

Al Hammadi added that the social workers interviewed the two children in light of the information and observations they collected, in order to ensure their psychological and health conditions, and meetings were held with the mother to direct her in the interest of the children, noting that this paralleled the submission of periodic reports to the judiciary, until the father was able Reclaiming custody of the two children after four years as a result of the poor condition of the two children with the incubator who was given many opportunities to improve her treatment and performance, to no avail.

A healthy family environment

The Director of the Family Cohesion Department at the Community Development Authority in Dubai, Dr. Abdulaziz Al Hammadi, confirmed that the authority’s implementation of the vision of the child is a task that contributes to maintaining the child’s relationship with one of the parents and his relatives, explaining that the segment benefiting from the service includes families of divorce and separation, and the families in which he died. One of the parents or was imprisoned, and the vision passed to the grandparents or relatives.

He said that the problems of divorced children who are cuddled by one of the parties need close follow-up to ensure that the children live in a sound family and social environment, pointing out that there is a small percentage of divorced people, who behave in a civilized and high-level moral manner, and they agree to share the care and care of children without problems, which leads Psychological stability on parents and children alike.

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