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It is frequent that the habitual users

see in some men (we dare not say that in most of them) that fondness that led the gunmen of the old West to

shooting at everything that have life and move.

They appreciate it that way from their own experience, like that of Cristina, 42 years old and a flight attendant, with a profile on one of those platforms: "I've been in this for a month and

with the number of those who enter me. And it's not that I be very special, is that

The same thing happens to a couple of friends who are also looking for a partner. "

What seemed like

over dozens of male generations today can be measured and verified in the

to appreciate in numbers the gender difference when it comes to flirting.

The online journal

has published a study based on

that were monitored for their activity over a period of time. The men in the group

of the female profiles offered by the application.

of the candidates.

Another research work, this one by two computer engineers,

from Queen Mary University of London, also from profiles on Tinder, shows that women usually wait

once it has been completed. produced a 'match' (mutual interest):

send it in the first five minutes; only

do it as quickly. In fact, they take an average of

to communicate, compared to

"It is a fact that, in general,

than men," says

an expert psychologist in neuroscience and relationships.

"In the first place, because

that for a first contact matter less to them, such as educational level, socioeconomic level or the way in which the other expresses himself or

continues the expert.

Thrill hunters and people hunters

Serrano differentiates two forms of approach. One, more masculine, prioritizes

"It is above all about liking, feeling that she feels good with you, that you are relevant, that you attract attention. That is why often you do not even need contact, it is enough perceive that response in the other person

and give back to the narcissist. And the more that provide that stimulus, the better. "

The most feminine alternative is to play with

"In this case, a goal is sought, which can be a

or just sex, but to achieve it certain qualities are valued, that is,

because not there are so many suitable candidates. You focus on one or two

continues Isabel Serrano. Or to put it another way, "in dating apps you usually find two types of personalities: those that I call

(like the more the better) and the

(find the right one for what you are looking for) ".

There is no doubt that 'thrill hunters' are more active: receiving fewer positive responses, they tend

to increase their chances of success, without giving up on

simultaneous

.

The writer and comedian

is quite descriptive in that regard: "A man you have been able to meet in a dating app may

if it took you three days to respond to the message."

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