Doubting the relationship does not automatically mean ending it.

To get their own relationship going again, couples also seek help from a couple therapist.

Many swear by the meetings.

However, the author Thomas Meyer takes a different approach.

A separation is essentially a “compliment” because it means that the partner deserves something better than a failure. “Ultimately, happiness is what remains when you have removed everything from your life that is not good for you,” summarizes Meyer. For him, love means attraction, fitting, understanding one another. The author has created a

compatibility test with ten questions

that should be answered spontaneously and honestly.