The B side of breastfeeding: "Pediatrician Carlos González was my go-to guru, but he is not God nor are his truths absolute, although he treats them as such" Eva Millet, critical of the so-called 'attachment parenting': "Just because you don't breastfeed you are not a worse mother" The idyllic image of the happy mother breastfeeding a chubby baby while gazing at each other raptly is the dream of many women when they are pregnant.