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Kisses
have the ability to
make us fly
, to make us
forget everything
and to unleash our
most
primary impulses
. However, they can also
completely ruin
the
magic
between
two people
. In short, they serve to determine if there is
chemistry
in a
relationship
. And it is not just about
joining lips
with someone, but about transmitting emotions to achieve that
feeling of pleasure
.
Sexologist Luisa Rodríguez's advice for giving a good kiss
A woman and a man hugging.PEXELS
The
lips
have more than
a million
nerve receptors
,
making them one of the
most sensitive parts
of the
body
. "When
kissing,
these receptors send
information
to the
brain where a series of
neurochemical reactions
are released
in the
limbic system
(which is the area of the brain where emotions reside)," explains sexologist
Luisa Rodríguez , creator of the
E-Therapy 2.0
programs
.
tuterapiasexual.com
. That is why we feel
pleasure
and
attachment
to the other person, we forget sadness and our
sexual appetite
increases . However, for this to happen, it must be a
good kiss
. The expert offers a series of
tips
to achieve this. She takes note:
If you smoke
, ask if the
smell of tobacco
bothers you :
non-smokers
usually don't like it and it's better
to know beforehand
. Try
brushing your teeth
or
chewing gum
before you go to kiss.
Don't eat foods
with
strong flavors
: This is important in case you don't know
the other person
well and you don't know if they care or not.
If you have
dry
or
chapped
lips , use a
balm
: this will make them feel
soft
and more
pleasant
for both of you. In the case of
men
, it is usually more pleasant to kiss a
freshly shaved
man , although other people do not mind at all.
Use all the muscles in your
mouth
and
tongue
: this way,
you will increase the sensation
. It is much better to kiss someone with a mouth that responds to yours and who knows how
to use pressure
, than someone whose mouth seems
slack
and
moves little
.
Also kiss on the
neck
and face
:
in addition to the mouth, you have to do it in other places so that the sensation is more
pleasant
. It's also okay to use your
hands
to caress the back,
head
,
neck
,
waist
,
buttocks
and whatever comes to mind at that moment.
Use
eye contact
: there is nothing more
intimate
or closer to a couple than looking into each other's
eyes
. Do it from time to time while you are kissing.
Say some affectionate
or
morbid
word
in
his ear
: that
will warm up the atmosphere
. Furthermore, the sensation of someone's
breath
speaking next to our ear is very
exciting
.
Find out
what
the other person
likes :
communication as a couple
is very important. If the other person doesn't tell you anything about how they like kisses,
ask them directly
.
Keys to making your first kiss with someone a success
A couple kissing and caressing each other.PEXELS
Kisses are important at
any time
in a relationship, but, as we said, they determine whether there is chemistry between two people. Therefore, they have a
special significance
when we are
starting with someone
. In this sense, for the
first kiss
to be a
success
, you have to
prepare the atmosphere
by letting the other person see that you want to take the step with
smiles
and maintaining
eye contact
. "You can
flirt a little
and
approach slowly
while placing your hand on her
arm
, holding her
hand
or
rubbing her knee
," explains
Luisa Rodríguez
.
The sexologist adds that it is important to have
confidence
in yourself and not get carried away by
negative thoughts
or
doubt
whether you
will like it or not
. Furthermore,
security
is always attractive. However, if they charge you
,
there is no choice but
to accept it with sportsmanship
. In case the kiss finally takes place, she sees from
less to more
. "Start slower
and
softer
and, if you see that the other person
responds well
, then you can
intensify the pace
. Accompany the kiss with
caresses
, but
without being abrupt at first," details
the
expert. You have to
let yourself go
and
focus on enjoying yourself
, removing your mind from any thoughts that can
distract
you and
living in the moment
.