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Kisses

have the ability to

make us fly

, to make us

forget everything

and to unleash our

most

primary impulses

. However, they can also

completely ruin

the

magic

between

two people

. In short, they serve to determine if there is

chemistry

in a

relationship

. And it is not just about

joining lips

with someone, but about transmitting emotions to achieve that

feeling of pleasure

.

Sexologist Luisa Rodríguez's advice for giving a good kiss

A woman and a man hugging.PEXELS

The

lips

have more than

a million

nerve receptors

,

making them one of the

most sensitive parts

of the

body

. "When

kissing,

these receptors send

information

to the

brain where a series of

neurochemical reactions

are released

in the

limbic system

(which is the area of ​​the brain where emotions reside)," explains sexologist

Luisa Rodríguez , creator of the

E-Therapy 2.0

programs

.

tuterapiasexual.com

. That is why we feel

pleasure

and

attachment

to the other person, we forget sadness and our

sexual appetite

increases . However, for this to happen, it must be a

good kiss

. The expert offers a series of

tips

to achieve this. She takes note:

  • If you smoke

    , ask if the

    smell of tobacco

    bothers you :

    non-smokers

    usually don't like it and it's better

    to know beforehand

    . Try

    brushing your teeth

    or

    chewing gum

    before you go to kiss.

  • Don't eat foods

    with

    strong flavors

    : This is important in case you don't know

    the other person

    well and you don't know if they care or not.

  • If you have

    dry

    or

    chapped

    lips , use a

    balm

    : this will make them feel

    soft

    and more

    pleasant

    for both of you. In the case of

    men

    , it is usually more pleasant to kiss a

    freshly shaved

    man , although other people do not mind at all.

  • Use all the muscles in your

    mouth

    and

    tongue

    : this way,

    you will increase the sensation

    . It is much better to kiss someone with a mouth that responds to yours and who knows how

    to use pressure

    , than someone whose mouth seems

    slack

    and

    moves little

    .

  • Also kiss on the

    neck

    and face

    :

    in addition to the mouth, you have to do it in other places so that the sensation is more

    pleasant

    . It's also okay to use your

    hands

    to caress the back,

    head

    ,

    neck

    ,

    waist

    ,

    buttocks

    and whatever comes to mind at that moment.

  • Use

    eye contact

    : there is nothing more

    intimate

    or closer to a couple than looking into each other's

    eyes

    . Do it from time to time while you are kissing.

  • Say some affectionate

    or

    morbid

    word

    in

    his ear

    : that

    will warm up the atmosphere

    . Furthermore, the sensation of someone's

    breath

    speaking next to our ear is very

    exciting

    .

  • Find out

    what

    the other person

    likes :

    communication as a couple

    is very important. If the other person doesn't tell you anything about how they like kisses,

    ask them directly

    .

Keys to making your first kiss with someone a success

A couple kissing and caressing each other.PEXELS

Kisses are important at

any time

in a relationship, but, as we said, they determine whether there is chemistry between two people. Therefore, they have a

special significance

when we are

starting with someone

. In this sense, for the

first kiss

to be a

success

, you have to

prepare the atmosphere

by letting the other person see that you want to take the step with

smiles

and maintaining

eye contact

. "You can

flirt a little

and

approach slowly

while placing your hand on her

arm

, holding her

hand

or

rubbing her knee

," explains

Luisa Rodríguez

.

The sexologist adds that it is important to have

confidence

in yourself and not get carried away by

negative thoughts

or

doubt

whether you

will like it or not

. Furthermore,

security

is always attractive. However, if they charge you

,

there is no choice but

to accept it with sportsmanship

. In case the kiss finally takes place, she sees from

less to more

. "Start slower

and

softer

and, if you see that the other person

responds well

, then you can

intensify the pace

. Accompany the kiss with

caresses

, but

without being abrupt at first," details

the

expert. You have to

let yourself go

and

focus on enjoying yourself

, removing your mind from any thoughts that can

distract

you and

living in the moment

.