Why we spend all day listening to Miley Cyrus's 'Flowers' (and it suits us so well)

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I spend the day humming it.

I put it on as soon as I get up, when I go to train and while I prepare dinner.

I confess without any embarrassment that, although I look like

, I 'glimpse' myself walking sinuously through the hills of Los Angeles, clad in a golden dress all empowered and 'come on top'.

What's more, even she 'serves' me as an incentive to do one more repetition in my series of push-ups.

I'm not the only one.

My friends 'walk' the same as me, obsessed with that 'Flowers' by Miley Cyrus that has become an

.

Because, unlike

Gerard Piqué and Clara Chía are alluded to (which I personally find super catchy, but quite vulgar)

the Cyrus's great song does not sound like a dodgy revenge (although it is) against her ex,

, but rather the "vindication" of something that we should all learn, men and women, from our earliest childhood

"What do you feel when you listen to or see the 'Flowers' video clip?" I ask one of my bosom friends.

This is her answer "A great sadness but, at the same time,

. I perceive, in each of its verses and, in that powerful walk of the singer, the

l".

Here is another no less impressive testimony.

"I'm just telling you that my favorite phrase right now is: '

'. It blows my mind! It's a rush that I feel when I hear it that gives me so much strength. Everything blows me away: the rhythm, the lyrics, everything It's my favorite song and my daughter hates me, because I can't stop dancing to it and she even plays it for me to soften me up if she's going to go out. Come on, I'm seriously thinking about

.

"

Yes, as the psychologist Brígida Higueras Madsen told us a few months ago, the secret of Shakira's success with that first installment of

obviously did not lie in the quality of the lyrics but in having achieved that "her fans empathize with the

she felt after her separation from Piqué", Cyrus has gone one step further by focusing on herself instead of "rummaging through the wound" and

.

"It may be 'very therapeutic' to share and seek support but in an intimate circle but, beyond there, what is usually called 'give birth' to our ex -above all,

," Madsen explained to us at the time.

With an overwhelming simplicity (the song doesn't stand out either, precisely because of the height of its lyrics), 'Flowers' puts 'very basic' things under our noses that should be part of the 'repertoire' of basics to assimilate in our most tender childhood instead of that frustrating imaginary of 'happy endings and partridges'.

Things like that

(the father of another of my bosom friends often says that if you put two half oranges together, they end up rotting);

that walking through life hand in hand with a partner or partner is wonderful but

;

that

(which is usually a shortcut to self-destruct);

or that we are always going to be the ones who are going to understand each other the best (and also the hardest on ourselves).

They say that 'Flowers' is the answer to '

by

but, and here comes my big 'geek', what

that is sung to Real Madrid every time they win the Champions League.

Today it frees us, it gives us a rush, it empowers us, it makes us feel strong or, also, it makes us cry and maybe, tomorrow, we will end up hating it from listening to it so much, but what is clear is that its verses remind us of something that we should never be told. forget.

Woody Allen already said it:

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