Be the master of your decision
Dr..
Yousef al-Sharif
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November 09 2022
In my previous article, I talked about dependency and its becoming an art of our time, which is what prompted me to talk in this article about the blessing of controlling our life decisions and the way to win them. Sheikh / Muhammad Metwally Al Shaarawy, may God have mercy on him, says: He has the decision of his head.” Personally, I cannot agree with him more than that.
How can a person make a decision in his life when he does not have the food of his day?
How do you control your life as a human being when you do not control the source of your income and personal expenses?
How are you able to say I will do this...or I will not do that, when you are dependent on someone else to provide you with food, drink, clothing and housing?
How can you have the luxury of being independent in the course of your life when you are unable to provide the basics for your living and someone else is doing it for you?
Of course not, you will not be able, and God, the Almighty, the Majestic, says in his dear book: “Men are in charge of women today by what God has given some of them over others, and for what they spend, so how is the man responsible for spending your life?” Independence with it and you are dependent on your family or on another source to bring your livelihood other than yourself?!
Which is also what I talked about in a previous article, being a young man in the prime of your life depends on your family to build your life for you and to provide you with everything, this will give them the greatest right to control your fate and decisions to a large extent, who do you marry, when you travel, where do you go out , and how much you should spend during the day or month... But if your work is your main source of income, it will give you the right to make many decisions for yourself instead of others doing it for you and controlling you.
Another example, if you are an employee in a workplace, you work hard but you are nothing special, you can be replaced easily, in a more correct sense, you will always feel that you are under the authority of the employer, whether he treats you well or insults you or treats you bossy, discount you or not He gives you the agreed-upon annual increase, you will feel that you are a prisoner of this work, and therefore, after a while, you will not produce, develop or give the work required of you in an optimal way. The inside is that you are not special, and that what you do is done by a lot of employees and perhaps with lower salaries and more effectively.
The solution to this problem lies within you, to always work on yourself and develop from it and complete your work to the fullest, as quickly and in your own way that distinguishes you from your colleagues and peers in front of the employer.
The end of saying, that if you read and reflect well and look at the examples given in the article, you will find that everything is in your hands, and you have two choices in life that have no third party, the first is that you can submit, submit and surrender to others and their desires and controls over you for life, or to take control of your affairs and take a brave step forward And you decide from today that you will not let anyone control you in any way, regardless of their power or control over you, and that you will do everything to be “the master of your decision.”
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