5 ideas to overcome the first vacation as a couple

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One of the most anticipated events of the year is here.

The holidays are approaching and with it, we

and embrace our well-deserved rest.

Enjoyment, relaxation and idleness mark this period.

However, for many of us, vacations pose some challenges, especially if it is the first time we have decided to live them as a couple.

It's an exciting time and often a

Here are some tips to overcome the main setbacks or tensions that may arise during the summer holidays:

• If you are a team, you have to

  act like a team!

  There is no faster way to enter into conflict than by imposing an agenda without consulting the other.

  If you both want to enjoy the adventure, it is important that there is a consensus about your destination and the activities you want to do.

  The trip begins during the planning, not when you are already on the move.

  The chosen place and the use of free time must be attractive to both parties.

  To facilitate this issue, it is essential to make your preferences, interests and rhythms known.

  Do you need to go to a spa?

  Tell her.

  Does your partner prefer a rural setting?

  listen to him

  The fact that you have different interests does not mean that your trip is incompatible: do rural hotels with spas exist?

  Do not make a drama of a small disagreement.

  These situations are ideal to test your assertiveness and the search for common solutions.

• Once this issue is resolved, it

  is possible that it will be one of you who has the initiative to organize the plans,

  either because you enjoy the task or because you have more time.

  This should not cause an imbalance or discomfort as long as you feel comfortable in one role or another and what has been agreed upon is respected.

• Keep it real.

  Obviously, differences may arise in your choices.

  For example, some people opt for active vacations, where sports play a major role.

  However, other people prefer to spend their downtime reading a book or visiting a museum.

  To avoid getting into a confrontation, sometimes

  just planning a little time alone is enough.

  Vacations are not going to be better or worse for not sharing 100% of your time.

  In fact, what can be negative is that one and the other act out of mere complacency, forgetting their own needs.

  If this happens, it is possible that there will be awkward moments and that you experience the trip as part of an endurance test.

  On the other hand, as part of a realistic attitude, spontaneity should also be noted.

  It is completely recommended that your itinerary is open and also allows you to

  improvise.

• Create your own rules.

  Yes, it is a vacation, but this does not mean that you have to relax in absolutely everything and embrace the chaos.

  The order, cleanliness and expenses

  can lead to discussions.

  To prevent this from happening, do not neglect the shared space and stick to your initial budget.

  Boundaries help us maintain stability.

• Flexibility.

  Getting out of the routine means facing new situations and setbacks.

  It is true that planning has many advantages.

  However, there is the possibility that the flight is delayed, that you arrive at the hotel and that the room is not as nice as you expected or that in the beach bar they serve you a delicious tapa, but it is disastrous for your stomach... These Situations also serve to get to know each other.

  So take a deep breath and

  focus on the positives

  of the experience!

• Share quality time.

  Enjoying the company of the other person at a calmer pace, with less stress and without obligations, will invite you to

  deepen your connection.

  Do not let the mobile become the center of this experience.

  Take advantage of this time of exclusivity to increase your degree of intimacy, both physically and psychologically.

  What if you try a more sensory sex?

  Less routine?

  More wild?

  Have you ever talked about how you see yourself in 5 years?

  Do you feel that you are creating a common project?

  It is a good time to

  explore and strengthen your bond.

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