Facing the gains and losses of the college entrance examination, more "breakthrough" spirit is a compulsory course for families

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  Both candidates and parents should take a long-term view, rather than stick to temporary gains and losses.

  Recently, the results of the college entrance examination in various places have been released one after another, and there have been many scenes of the family being ecstatic after a high score was found on the short video platform.

Of course, after the scores of the college entrance examination, there will always be some happy and some sad.

Among them, there is no lack of loss caused by excessive expectations.

  For example, such a video has been widely circulated recently.

The candidates in the video are gloomy and tearful at the college entrance examination scores of "649 points, ranked 550 in the province" on the computer screen.

His parents also said that the whole family was silent after seeing the results.

The score of 649 points, although acceptable in the eyes of others, has not reached their ideal goal.

The father's tone in the video is low, and this attitude will undoubtedly cause double stimulation to the child.

  The college entrance examination is a major test in the life of candidates, and naturally it is also a major event for a family.

However, how to face the "failure" of the college entrance examination may be more important for candidates and their families.

The examination room is like a battlefield, and victory and defeat are common occurrences.

What's more, there are many factors that affect the results of the college entrance examination, including personal ability, physical and mental state, and even luck. No one can guarantee 100% normal performance.

  Every candidate who really struggles for the college entrance examination has experienced a hard journey of overcoming obstacles and studying problems.

It can be said that every candidate who survives the college entrance examination is not easy.

Therefore, even if the test scores are not ideal, they need to be given more tolerance and encouragement, especially the understanding and support from their families.

  For candidates who have failed in the examination room, they actually need the understanding and comfort of their families at this moment, not the other way around.

A frustrated person, if he can get the encouragement and support of his family in time, will make him more determined and brave when he faces greater difficulties in the future.

And a family that suffers from the "setback" of failing in the college entrance examination should also unite as one, encourage each other, get out of the predicament as soon as possible, and start the next journey.

  In fact, whether it is a failure or an extraordinary performance, it takes more "breakthrough" spirit to deal with everything.

It should be noted that no matter what the college entrance examination results are, they are the results of many years of poor candidates.

The college entrance examination is only the first step for candidates in the broader life of the future.

  In fact, how to prepare for the college entrance examination with a positive attitude and face the results of the college entrance examination is a compulsory course for every family.

The college entrance examination is certainly important, but it is no longer an era of lifelong examinations. There are still many opportunities and challenges in the next life, and the college entrance examination is just one of the thresholds.

Both candidates and parents should take a long-term view, rather than stick to temporary gains and losses.

The most important thing is to let the children see that after the college entrance examination, they will have a longer and splendid life.

  □Hesheng (media person)

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