[Explanation] On the eve of "March 8th" Women's Day, the Xi'an Mangypsing Parents Mutual Aid and Charity Center for the Mental Disabled has prepared a "different" women's psychological salon for mothers of special children.
Compared with the mothers of other children, their lives have changed a lot. They have never accepted the facts to accept them. From strong women to full-time mothers, they have endured too much pressure that ordinary people can't imagine.
On the day of the event, reporters came to the scene to learn how mothers obtained spiritual healing here.
In the small room, more than 30 mothers were sitting beside the psychological counselor Zhao Wanning.
As emotional role-playing, face-to-face whispering and other games progressed, during the exchange, some people smiled, some were reserved, and some were talking and shedding tears.
They went from tense to relaxed and at ease, and slowly relaxed unconsciously.
[Concurrent] Guo Jin, mother of special children
It was the first time I participated in an activity like this, and through this activity, I really felt a sense of relaxation and soothing, and I also felt that the flow of energy and love was mentioned in the aspect of reading a psychology book. Flow, I didn't experience it very deeply before, because many of the friends who come together today are like us, and many parents may have similar experiences with each other, so I can feel more tolerance between us. , more love.
[Explanation] Guo Jin, who used to be a pediatrician, told reporters that in order to treat her child, she traveled all over the world and went to Beijing, Shanghai, Qingdao and other places.
After so many years, I feel that I have grown a lot. Although I have given up my career and ideals, I have also become a "steel warrior" for my children.
Because of professional reasons, Guo Jin discovered the child's condition in time, and also received family help in her life with the child.
However, not every mother of a special child is so lucky. They are often under pressure from all walks of life, such as family, economy, treatment, etc., and their spirits are in a state of tension for a long time.
[Concurrent] Psychological consultant Zhao Wanning
What they need very much is group support. One of the biggest voices is that I am not alone. I am organized. With the support of such parents, they can see the situation faced by parents of young children. At the same time, at a young age, parents of older children can see a sense of relief and acceptance, as well as a sense of strength and support, so they can move forward bravely.
[Commentary] Zhao Wanning said that the original intention of setting up various games is to let them view their lives in a three-dimensional manner, reduce their current pain, and reduce their negative emotions through verbal communication and physical contact, so as to gain some relaxation and happy.
[Concurrent] Psychological consultant Zhao Wanning
When I get home, I also hope that they have a self-help way, such as teaching them improvisation, which is to set a time of 20 minutes, to write their own state with a pen, just not to judge all the words and say it, the process of reading after she finishes writing It is a catharsis in itself. At the same time, there are also people who can sit in meditation, paint, or talk to parents who are also studying. It is a better way for them to do it every day.
[Same period] When night fell, the mothers who hugged each other left one by one, and the room that was noisy just a moment ago returned to calm.
While packing up, Zhao Wanning said that they saw their past and future through each other's eyes, and supported each other through clenched hands. She hoped that this warm power could be passed on forever.
Gao Chengmei reports from Xi'an
Responsible editor: [Cheng Chunyu]