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The man and his forgotten roles
Dr..
Yousef al-Sharif
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Feb 23 2022
Unfortunately, many men believe that his role towards his family is to provide them with a decent life only, and that his going to work every day exempts him from all other roles towards his family. Even if it plays an essential role, especially since we live in a time of comparisons and ostentation, how would your family’s position be when they watch their colleagues, relatives and neighbors?!
And what is the relationship between them and their father like when they do not find it from you?!
And I do not mean here the comparison that you get from the boys only, but I also mean the comparison that you get from your wife while she watches the posts, snaps, and stories of her friends on social media.
Some men find him returning home carrying the weight of the world with him, and as soon as one of the family members asks him for any request, until the third world war begins, and in a loud voice he reproaches them that he has just returned from work, and says to them, “What is enough shit at work?
We are missing you, you are at home.” No, my dear, they have no fault in your problems with your manager, nor that you did not achieve your “target”, nor is their problem what you face in your work, and I do not mean here those emergency and temporary circumstances that occur and it is the family’s duty to bear them With you, I mean the way of life in this way.
Some men, unfortunately, if you ask him in which classes his children do not know, and be careful, dear man, your family needs a lot from you, you need to be with them in their memories, on their occasions, in their stages of development, the family needs to allocate some time for them, even if you find it difficult, And you must understand that your beautiful time with them is the way out of life's problems and circumstances, and you have to separate your duties towards them and your duties towards your work, and not let things interfere with each other.
There is a type of man who completely forgets the presence of his family, whenever he gets the opportunity, he finds him “and he leaves all the responsibilities on his wife, even when he decides to go out with them on a walk that coordinates with his “quarter” to sit with them in a cafe and leave his family wandering in the markets alone, and this is the case as it is The driver is of no use except for the “delivery”, and such a calamity befell the family.
The family is a coherent entity that is not upright unless its pillars are interconnected, so what if its pillar is dysfunctional and unbalanced?!
Soon it will fall and problems will be permeated from all directions, and you, dear man, are the pillar and mayor of this house, and you are responsible for every small and big thing in it. You are short of something with them.” No, my dear, if you think like this, then you should review yourself and recalculate, for your roles are not represented by any being for you, no matter how complex the facts and changing concepts.
• The family is a coherent entity that is not upright unless its pillars are interconnected, so what if its pillar is dysfunctional and unbalanced?
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