Chinanews client, Beijing, January 1st (Reporter Shangguanyun) No one has ever doubted that "Dream of Red Mansions" is full of human nature: relatives calculate each other, brothers often have rifts in their hearts, beautiful and pure love is inevitable. Fate is impermanent.

　　However, there is also the most common warmth here: Grandma Liu is good at sophistication, but she knows her gratitude and tries her best to rescue sister Qiao; Zijuan is just a maid, but she always treats Lin Daiyu with sincerity, from daily trivial matters to life-long events, Try your best to plan.

　　This is the most sincere friendship in the Grand View Garden. The more you get older, the more you understand it.

Image source: A screenshot of the 87 version of "A Dream of Red Mansions"

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　　When she first entered Jia Mansion, Daiyu brought two servants, the childish one was Xue Yan, and the very old one was Mother Wang.

Later, Zijuan was sent to Daiyu to serve her.

　　Zijuan quickly figured out Lin Daiyu's temperament, and knew that she was frail and sickly, and she had to pay more attention at all times.

She is diligent and takes care of Daiyu in every possible way.

　　Once, when it was snowing in winter, Daiyu ran to Aunt Xue’s residence and chatted with Baochai and Baoyu.

Xueyan came to give Daiyu a small hand stove, "Sister Zijuan was afraid that the girl was cold, so I brought it."

　　If Daiyu loses his temper and is too lazy to take medicine, she will be comforted by saying, "The cough is better, and I don’t take medicine... I get up early in the morning and stand in this trendy place for half a day, so I should go back to rest and rest. Up."

　　Occasionally, Daiyu and Shi Xiangyun joined poems in the Wajing Pavilion. Forget about the time, she and Cuiyu went all over the garden to search, "I have walked all over the garden, and I found it with my concubine." She was just worried that Daiyu was weak. , Can not withstand the cold and toss.

　　Such careful companionship and care may not be possible for some relatives.

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　　Confucius once said, "You are straight, you are forgiving, you know more about it, and it is beneficial."

　　For Daiyu, Zijuan happened to be the outspoken friend.

If it is said that Zijuan takes care of Daiyu only because of the relationship between master and servant, then her verbal advice often reveals the warmth that only a sister has.

Image source: A screenshot of the 87 version of "A Dream of Red Mansions"

　　Because of poor communication, Daiyu and Baoyu quarreled, regretted later, and bowed their heads in embarrassment.

Zi Juan said that she was "too impetuous": Others don't know Baoyu's temper, don't we know?

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　　Not only that, Zijuan also dared to criticize Daiyu, defending Baoyu, "I think it's good for him to be on a girl all the time. It's because the girl is young and often asks him to be distorted."

　　Baoyu came to ask for peace, but Daiyu prevented her from opening the door. Zijuan knew she was "different" and didn't care. What?" As he said, he opened the door on his own.

　　By the way, he also teased Daiyu to Baoyu, "I've recovered from the illness, but I'm not very angry."

　　Or, Baoyu and Daiyu were chatting and told Zijuan to pour tea. Daiyu asked Zijuan to scoop water for herself first, and Zijuan smiled, "He is a guest, so naturally he poured the tea first, and then scooped water. "While speaking, I poured tea.

　　Understanding and companionship are equally important.

Many of Zijuan's words and deeds transcended the identity of a maid of that era. She defended Daiyu from the heart, and understood Daiyu's kindness and rationality, and concluded that Daiyu would not be angry about it.

　　A true friend is the one who understands you, can see through your mind at a glance, and is willing to give the most sincere advice.

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　　Someone once said that there are three people in "A Dream of Red Mansions" who are really good to Daiyu, that is, Jia Mu, Baoyu and Zijuan.

　　Needless to say the first two, Zijuan could indeed be regarded as Daiyu's acquired relatives, hoping that Daiyu's life would be stable.

Otherwise, she would not take the risk to test Baoyu's sincerity towards Daiyu and cause Baoyu to become seriously ill.

　　She understands the relationship between Bao and Dai and also sees the crux of the problem, and sincerely considers Daiyu, "No parents on the top, no brothers on the bottom, who is the one who knows to hurt the heat? As early as possible, the old lady still understands the tough In the season, it’s important to make a big deal."

Image source: A screenshot of the 87 version of "A Dream of Red Mansions"

　　If we say that Zijuan has so-called selfishness, she is just worried that if Daiyu marries far away, and her family will be here, it might be inconvenient to follow.

But if you don't go, you will betray Su Ri's friendship, "for a moment, we two cannot live without."

　　Until the end, Daiyu was seriously ill, and Zijuan refused to participate in the "off-the-bag scheme" and refused to please the family in charge; in the 87 version of "Dream of Red Mansions", after Lin Daiyu died, she said farewell to Baoyu, "Second Lord, I am leaving. Go to the south and accompany Miss Lin."

　　Such strong feelings also originated from Daiyu's attitude towards Zijuan.

In the characters in "Dream of Red Mansions", Daiyu is often labeled as "little" and "weird", but she has never shown the majesty of her master to Zijuan, nor does she have any hypocritical routines.

　　"Friends are righteous, not snobbery", the description is probably the relationship between Daiyu and Zijuan.

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　　Some time ago, there was a hot topic on the Internet about the character modeling of A Dream of Red Mansions. Someone mentioned Zijuan and Daiyu.

Some people sighed that the book described all kinds of complicated human feelings and sophistication, and their friendship can be regarded as a clear stream.

　　Everyone is looking forward to having companions, so you don’t have to fight alone.

However, it is often necessary to experience the ups and downs of the world and wait until middle age to understand the golden content of the word "sincerity" in the relationship of friends.

　　The icing on the cake is too easy. When gaining power, no one will hesitate to say a few more good things; but it is rare to give charcoal in the snow. When losing power, most people avoid it. Most of the people with poor moral character will come to step on it and pick it up again. Gao Zhier flew away.

　　There is no distinction between high and low, but there is a difference between good and bad in heart.

Regardless of interests, long-lasting feelings must be based on character after all.

Years will sift out the acquaintances that are on the surface for everyone, and the ones who stay in life are the friends that are worth cherishing.

　　"One thousand taels of gold is easy to get, and it's hard to find one with a deep heart." This sentence may also be appropriate to describe true friendship.

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