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"Saying what we feel. Feeling what we say"
is one of Seneca's reflections on life and on love.
And they agree with the need to be honest and the ability to know how to take advantage of opportunities;
what is not said is lost, so you do not have to stay with the desire.
Falling in love is that situation full of joy by which we feel attracted to other people and we try to share with them all the time we have.
In falling in love,
sharing
is the basis of success.
But this base is as physical as it is psychic, because hormones have a lot to say.
And one of the
loudest
is
oxytocin
.
How the infatuation starts
Oxytocin is the hormone of love. When it increases it provokes feelings of satisfaction, calm and security. Falling in love is a behavior directed entirely by the
brain
and by the
chemistry
of our body. We distinguish two phases of falling in love: one in which a large amount of
dopamine
is generated
that causes a state of joy and
euphoria
typical of the first moments of romance. Dopamine acts as an accelerating agent capable of regulating motivation and
desire
.
Then, the production of
endorphins
is generated
, an immediate response to pleasure.
These hormones are secreted, for example, after playing sports or
sex
.
They give us that feeling of well-being and help us control our
behavior
.
Endorphins create
addiction
, which leads us to carry out certain behaviors to achieve the
satisfaction
they generate.
That is why there is a literary figure who talks about being
'addicted to love',
because of the addictive reactions it causes in the maximum search for
pleasure
.
What are the symptoms of falling in love
We fall in love guided by the pheromones present in the air.
Pheromones, estrogens and testosterone
are responsible for what we want.
The
adrenaline
affects us directly, acelerandonos pulse when the person we are
interested in
approaches and drying our mouth when we need to talk.
And she is responsible for all those postures that you adopt when the person you like passes by.
Even if you never realized it
the adrenaline that you generate with their presence makes you settle in and
flirt
in their wake.
The
oxytocin
is produced in the hypothalamus and is responsible for love and sexual attraction, enhancing social relations and generosity. We release more or less amount of oxytocin depending on our tastes, our ideology and our perception of the world. It is a reward for what we have received from another person that we like. Oxytocin is
the body's own
reaction
as a reward when we do something right. And, it seems, it occurs in long-term monogamous relationships, only if you are happy in it.
We release oxytocin when we interact with others, so that this
hormonal
discharge
influences the creation of
personal
attachments
.
And its activation brings us enormous satisfaction and maximum sensation of
pleasure
.
That's why I don't like generating it so much.
How long the infatuation lasts
When
heartbreak
arrives,
we receive the blow, losing the levels of hormones responsible for our sensation of pleasure.
We stop being happy.
Heartbreak causes low levels of oxytocin and, above all,
serotonin
, the absence of which can lead to
depression
.
That is why it is good to try to maintain the
chemistry
and magic of falling in love.
For a health issue.
Think about it the next time you have doubts about the good of having a partner: but remember: in
love
, you are healthier.
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