In this new episode of “

 Tout Sexiquer

 ”, the podcast that questions sexuality and society, we discuss cunnilingus with Catherine Blanc, psychoanalyst and sex therapist, who published 

Uninhibited sexuality

 (Flammarion, 2015).

In her book, the author asks: “Do all women like cunnilingus?”.

Is this sexual act so "simple" to give as to receive?

A question in the form of generality.

As with regard to fellatio, on which we discussed in the last episode of “ 

Tout Sex Explores

 ”, there is, in this area, neither rule nor generality.

We appreciate or not this sexual act, give it as well as receive it.

Invitation to let go

In this podcast, the psychoanalysis and sexologist returns to the difficulty, in some people who receive this genital kiss, in letting go. The reason ? All "do not live their sex with the same peace of mind." The vulva, the lips, the clitoris, the entrance to the vagina can inspire very diverse reactions, love, admiration for some, but also disgust for others. Letting kiss, and kissing this part of the body is not anecdotal, because this sexual act involves "exposing yourself, daring to leave your sex in the sight and observation of the other".

Catherine Blanc notes that those who receive cunnilingus can experience a difficulty letting go to allow themselves to manifestations of pleasure.

But also to allow oneself not to manifest anything, when this oral-genital act does not arouse anything in the person who receives it. 

Confidence in oneself and in others

"To love cunnilingus, you have to have confidence in the other to gain self-confidence, and self-confidence, to allow confidence in the other," recalls Catherine Blanc in this episode, to listen to above.

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