[Explanation] As the TV series "Little Willingness" hits the air, how Chinese parents treat their children's education has aroused heated discussions among netizens.

Recently, the "Principals and Famous Teachers Face-to-face" special interview event sponsored by the Gansu Branch of China News Agency was launched in Lanzhou No. 2 Middle School.

The principal and famous teachers of the school exchanged ideas on how the school should alleviate the anxiety of parents and help children create a good environment for nurturing their hearts.

　　Lv Xiaoyan, a famous teaching teacher of the National "Ten Thousands Program", has been working as a class teacher in Lanzhou No. 2 Middle School for many years. She admits that she has seen many Chinese parents in film and television dramas. She is eager to look forward to her children, and her high expectations for her children have led to excessive pressure on her children. They don’t know how to cope and eventually collapse. Parents have good original intentions, but anxiety can easily infect their children. Therefore, parents also need to grow up, adjust their mentality with a normal heart, and actively guide them positively.

　　[Concurrent] Lu Xiaoyan, a famous teaching teacher of the National "Ten Thousand Thousand Plan"

　　Some of our recent film and television dramas "Little Willingness" have reflected this general sentiment. From the perspective of parents, we must be good at communicating with children, especially when we are facing children with serious rebellious psychology in high school and adolescence.

I found that many parents cannot communicate well with their children, and always say some negative words, "Your test scores are so bad this time, what can you do? Can you still get into college with this score?" etc. , Parents really need to realize that he also has a growth process, our children are growing, parents must also grow, he must learn to get along with children.

But our children really can't say, because I am adolescent, I have a rebellious mentality, all my problems are in my heart, I go home with a face, I can't communicate well with my parents, etc. This is two-sided.

　　[Explanation] In recent years, the psychological problems of adolescents have received increasing attention from the society. How to better care for the mental health of adolescents? Li Xiangrong, the principal of Lanzhou No. 2 Middle School, said that the mental health of adolescents should not only pay attention to students’ mental health education, but also pay attention to them. For the mental health of teachers and parents, the school helps parents understand the laws of students’ psychological development and the problems that will arise during growth through activities such as "Growing Heart to Heart" and "Smart Parents Lecture Hall", and guides and promotes parents and adolescent children's parents and children relationship.

　　[Concurrent] Li Xiangrong, Principal of Lanzhou No. 2 Middle School

　　Is it a family problem, a personality problem, or a classroom problem?

Through various aspects of research and screening, targeted psychological counseling and intervention, including conflicts between children and teachers, conflicts between home and school, conflicts between parents and students, we consider these initial causes The spearhead of psychological problems is investigated and analyzed, and professional teachers are provided with counseling. Teachers' mental health and parents' mental health are jointly managed to promote common growth.

　　[Explanation] It is reported that in the next step, the school will explore a new model of cooperation, mutual benefit and win-win cooperation with Lanzhou High-tech Zone in terms of resource sharing, teaching and research, training, and talent introduction.

In 2020, the school will also establish a cooperative alliance with the Second People's Hospital of Gansu Province to open a green channel for psychological consultation and referral.

So far, the school has a group counseling group for "Helping the College Entrance Examination" and a sand table healing group activity group to help students find a good way to deal with psychological distress in the group.

　　Reporter Li Yalong Liu Yutao reports from Lanzhou, Gansu

Editor in charge: [Liu Xian]