Sister raises younger brother, all reason
The movie "My Sister", which is currently being screened, raises a human relationship problem for everyone: the parents died in a car accident, leaving the grown-up sister and young brother behind. Does the older sister have to raise the young brother?
This issue has moved from the movie to the Internet, causing heated discussions among netizens.
To this question, our country's law gives the answer. In this case, the older sister does have the obligation to raise the younger brother.
That being the case, why do people still have so many different opinions?
Moreover, it is surprising that many people oppose that the older sister should not be affected by the younger brother.
I remember that in the 1980s, the TV series "The Stars Know My Heart" was all the rage, and it drew tears from many viewers.
A couple died, and 5 children were adopted by 5 families, leading different lives.
In the end, the eldest sister Xiuxiu went through untold hardships and brought her siblings back, reorganized the family, and lived a happy life together.
The eldest sister's "sister surrogate mothership" role and bitterness touched countless audiences.
In the past 40 years, people's perceptions have undergone such tremendous changes, which can be said to be progress, but it is also very emotional.
From the perspective of my sister alone, it is indeed a disadvantage to bring a "drag oil bottle" to be a "helping demon". In the future, employment, marriage, family, and even childbirth may be affected to a certain extent.
But why does the law make such a provision?
In fact, it is the result of comprehensive consideration. The raising of a sister is the most beneficial to the healthy growth of the younger brother, whether it is from material protection or spiritual comfort.
If there is a corrugated pattern from relatives, friends, acquaintances to strangers, and then to social institutions, the burden of raising a child who is depressed and unhappy must extend from the inside out, and only when the relatives cannot afford it. Pushed to the next level of relationship, and finally the society will take care of it.
Does the older sister suffer a big loss in raising younger brother?
On this issue, we must take a longer view.
In a certain period of time, it is undoubtedly one-dimensional. It is the older sister who is giving, but the older sister has also won the respect and love of the younger brother.
After the younger brother reaches adulthood, there may be another form of one-dimensionality-the younger brother is also kind to the older sister, taking care of the older sister wholeheartedly.
Of course, the older sister does not necessarily need the younger brother to do this, but the situation of the siblings, "Changhui" and "Youshun" is better than the older sister's reluctance to take care of the younger brother. .
Think about it in another way. When the older sister is the younger sister and the younger brother is the older brother, then, does the younger sister hope that the older brother can raise and take care of herself? This is the common feeling of a person that has not been easy through the ages. No matter when you have a larger and more responsible life, there will always be good rewards. The so-called "planting good causes and bearing good fruits" is also true. (Lian Haiping)