Can a relationship start like this? Sober, thoughtful, without butterflies-in-the-stomach-moment? Yes. Not only must it - it even has a greater chance of success than a love that is based on romantic infatuation. And it is the chance for the many singles who regularly fail because of their too high demands and ideas of what a supposedly perfect love should be like: "Warm-hearted affection is completely sufficient for a happy relationship," says couples therapist Ingrid Strobel, " Intoxicated being in love does not form the basis for a long-term partnership. ”Much more important