It's Friday and it's the day of “Tout Sexiquer”, the “sexuality and society” meeting of our podcast “Minute Papillon!
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We evoke the simulation of pleasure by men during sex, of this gap between the expression and the feeling of the body.
Women say they are more likely to fake in bed, but men do the same.
Six in 10 women (59%) admit to having already pretended to reach orgasm in their life, just under one in two men (42%), according to an Ifop survey in 2019.
Communication and expectations
Contrary to the speeches celebrating the cult of sexual performance, men do not bandage on command, nor do they come like a robot… Why do men pretend?
How to react between partners?
We talk about it in this episode with Sandra Saint-Aimé, couple therapist and clinical sexologist in Toulouse.
She chairs the national union of clinical sexologists.
Does ejaculation mean intense pleasure, orgasm?
Why do men pretend?
Is it better to simulate, or talk about it?
How to react to the partner who is simulating?
What place of communication in the practice of sex?
These are the questions of this exchange with Sandra Saint-Aimé.
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