When we recently asked a couple what has changed for them since we last spoke, the man said, “Arguments don't get me upset anymore.
I've become much more relaxed.
That might sound stupid now, but I've given up trying to convince my wife.
And that changed everything. ”Of course, that's the opposite of stupid.
This is one of the wisest insight I've ever heard, and the longer I think about it, the more I come to believe (
pun intended
) that this is probably the most valuable relationship tip ever.