There was a time in our marriage when I said to my husband, I want you to lead us better.

I got the idea that our marriage would work better if he took on his male leadership role.

I didn't know what exactly I meant by that, and that's not the only reason why it didn't work at all.

At some point he said to me in an argument: “I can't guide you if you don't let yourself be guided!” And I had to agree with him.