Love variety shows are popular, but it is not only young people who "learn how to love better"
Emotional variety shows, such as "Fantastic" and "Daughters' Love", focus on female growth and intergenerational communication
Our reporter Jiang Fang
"The love between adults should be because they like to be together, separate because they don't fit, and don't waste time procrastinating or disconnecting each other." The third season of the variety show "Daughters' Love" recently concluded, actor Jin Chen's Views and choices sparked heated debate.
She rejected "buddy" Zhang Jike and "Tenderness Xueba" Chen Yiming. When the program team asked her if she was afraid that the audience said she was too picky, Jin Chen bluntly said that she was not afraid, "Like it is like it, if you don't like it, you don't like it".
The "sister is so cool" crossed in the full screen is the audience's recognition of the modern concept of love.
In the past two years, TV screens and video sites have sprung up emotional variety shows, including "Daughters' Love", "Signs of Heart", "I like you and me too", and the number of broadcasts exceeded 100 million. Recently, a file featuring divorced female celebrities seeking marriage After the official announcement of the lineup of the variety show "Fantastic Again", it quickly rushed to the hot search.
When watching the love variety show has become a channel for many viewers to place their emotional needs, can people learn how to love better?
Scholars pointed out that the goal is to focus on the positive guidance of a healthy, positive, and modern view of marriage and love. Such emotional variety shows can arouse people’s empathy and introspection, but there is no script for intimacy in reality. Individuals look for multiple possibilities in life and realize self-growth.
Observing reality can win the resonance of audiences of different generations
The third season of "Daughters' Love" focuses on intergenerational observation, inviting fathers who want to understand their daughter's love situation to watch their daughter's love process, showing the different emotional thinking patterns of the two generations.
In addition to love relationships, the intergenerational relationship represented by father and daughter in this season's show is also eye-catching.
The program provides a window for the three fathers to understand the emotional world of their daughters through the observation mode.
The collision of the concepts of marriage and love between the two generations not only allows young audiences to see themselves, but also allows the elders to enter the hearts of their children, and to release their defenses and achieve empathy in the exchanges.
The 39-year-old actor Jin Sha has repeatedly expressed that she is "very eager to get out of the singles" and cannot lower the standard of "ideal type" in her heart. However, in the eyes of her father, she needs to "recognize age and reality"; Responsible for their own future", but in the eyes of his father, life without "the other half cares about and misses" is ultimately incomplete.
The 70-year-old father also sighed with emotion, "I was a grandfather earlier, even Grandpa Zeng"; he finally chose to comfort his daughter, "go with the flow and find the right person."
While directly addressing the pain points of intimacy, the program also takes care of the intergenerational warmth in the Chinese-style family, and presents a blueprint for intergenerational communication worth learning for the audience in front of the screen.
In the final analysis, the audience seems to be tasting other people's stories, but they are actually saving their own feelings and hearts.
The third season of "Daughters' Love" just ended, and another brand new emotional variety show "Thinking Again" caused a topic.
The show invited Ni Ping to be the chief of love, five divorced female artists formed a women's group to start a blind date with 30 amateur men, and encourage more women in reality to embrace love with a confident and positive attitude.
In the latest promo for the program, 50-year-old Wang Lin bluntly stated “I am here to marry for myself”; Wang Ziwen said “After the age of 30, the things that are afraid are still scared, but they can be faced”; Cai Zhuoyi, 27, mentioned “ "Ideal type", revealed that he likes a whiter, humorous boy; Huang Yi, 43, is still reckless and compares himself in front of love to "an phoenix"... It is not difficult to find that although they have experienced failed marriages, But did not give up struggling to run towards the beautiful love in my heart.
It should be said that everyone yearns for a happy marriage, but no matter how the marriage ends, at least the faith and courage held by the individual in love cannot be confiscated.
Many netizens are extremely looking forward to the broadcast of "Fresh Heart", hoping to see those who have been hurt, shed tears, and tried wrong, still believe in love and being loved; they also wish women at different stages of their lives always Maintain the courage to "step forward" toward love and life.
Individual love reality show "artificial sweetener" obscures the five flavors of reality
Those emotional variety shows that can reflect the real problems of marriage and love in life have already resonated with many audiences.
At the same time, certain love reality shows featuring "sweet interaction" have caused people to complain because of too many routines and "suspension" of the plot.
For example, "Parallel Time Meets You", which is known as crazy "sugar-spreading", invites male and female guests to write their own scripts, while creating an ambiguous atmosphere, while making idol dramas in reality shows.
This kind of "dramatic follow-up" is nicknamed by netizens as the "idol drama routine contest."
Actress Qin Lan wears a magical necklace and travels from the past to the present through a camera.
The male director Liu Yihao fell in love with her quickly. He first rescued the beauty on the side of the road, and then said, "From now on, you can't leave me for a second." Yang Chao Chao was accidentally hit by Hou Minghao, and the fast-eyed actor embraced her. After rolling down the stairs in a gesture of embracing each other, the two looked at each other affectionately... Amnesia, crossing, domineering male protagonist’s standard lines, and must look at each other or kiss after falling. They have been tried repeatedly in reality shows. .
These "artificial sweeteners" in "Parallel Time Meets You" seem sweet and romantic, but they are "suspended" in the air due to the lack of realistic genes and inner emotions.
You know, true love is absolutely impossible to "sprinkle sugar".
When the passion and sweetness fade, and you are still willing to work together to overcome the test, true love will truly emerge.
"With the establishment of a new lifestyle and the awakening of female consciousness, whether it is for women or men, how to better love each other in this era will be a difficult and realistic issue." Lu Peng, a researcher at the Shanghai Academy of Social Sciences, believes that good In addition to creating topics, Emotional variety shows can further stimulate people's reflection on reality and help young people to establish a more complete view of marriage and happiness.