Hardly any other topic recently polarized as much as gender, while there are dead pants in many relationships.

Literally.

Because men in particular are confused about what being a man really means and how they can bring erotic polarity back into their relationships. 

We meet a lot of couples where she says he's not a real man, and because of that she nags him and is dissatisfied.

His hesitation, doubts, and indecision are too unsexy for her.

The more he tries to please her, the more dissatisfaction it triggers in her.

He has long since withdrawn perplexed and gets really angry now and then.

We had just had a lot of sex, drank beer together in bed and lived like Jean-Paul Belmondo and Jean Seberg in “Out of Breath” by Jean-Luc Godard, sexy, hungry for life, wild and in Paris.

I had just been a man my wife wanted, and then the children came.