Middle school students dance and put on their shirts, and "unintentional actions" should also be moderately guided
According to "Southern Metropolis Daily", recently, during the entrance performance dance session of a sports meeting held in a middle school in Yangshuo County, Guangxi, the movement of students lifting their shirts while dancing caused a heated discussion on the Internet.
Part of the female students who participated in the performance lifted up greatly and could already see the underwear.
The principal of the middle school later responded that the dance was choreographed by the students themselves and had been reviewed by the teacher. However, the students did not wear their clothes much during the review, and the choreography will be stricter in the future.
Responding in a timely manner failed to reduce the popularity of the news. "Can the clothes be slapped" when middle school students dance is still the focus of debate among netizens.
Those who hold the attitude said that self-expression is the freedom of young people, and the view of "tightening clothes is not appropriate" is feudal and conservative, and that it is on the line. They also ridicule those who hold such an attitude should "return to ancient times."
From some perspectives, these statements may be true.
On the college basketball court, cheerleaders wore navel-bearing outfits to cheer for their own players-this is a scene of youth; in professional dance competitions, dancers dance close to the body and behave intimately-this is an artistic scene; In front of the lamp, the young girl walked by wearing short shorts—this is a beautiful scene.
But in the above news, those who are busy admiring "expressing themselves" seem to forget who they are evaluating and where.
To use an analogy: can it be the same thing to wear a swimsuit on the beach and on the subway?
According to the principal, the students' movements are imitations of popular dances on the Internet.
Objectively speaking, the third-year students in the incident must be minors. Their minds may not be mature enough to be able to accurately judge whether these temporarily popular dances are suitable for their age and status.
It doesn't matter whether the clothes are lifted or the shoulders are exposed, are the children learning these movements out of curiosity and fun, or are they really expressing their "self"?
I believe that most people still agree with the former.
In addition, the occasion of dancing is on a middle school campus, and "dressing neat and dignified" is a clear requirement of the middle school student code and most middle school regulations.
When a violation of the regulations occurs, whether the parties are intentional or unintentional, whether they are performing or for other reasons, the school must take timely management measures. Indulgence or ignorance may only make more students confused and puzzled: Yes Do this?
Where are the boundaries and scales?
In all fairness, some students' large-scale dressing movements may be just unintentional actions after the scene "jumped for joy"; the principal's response is also very good in terms of scale-this is not a serious matter. , But it is by no means unreasonable.
If this school can take this opportunity to make students better understand the difference between public and private spaces, the difference between middle school students and adults, and the balance between self-expression and self-protection, then this incident may be a good life education class.
It must be realized that adolescence is an important stage in the formation of a minor’s worldview and outlook on life. Especially in the complex Internet age, everyone will actively or passively receive massive amounts of information, and receive opinions that seem reasonable but completely opposite. , Any of these episodes may have a greater impact on their lives.
This is also one of the reasons why an action of shirking can attract such attention-not to blame the girl in the video, but to remind the school that every next generation and every teenager needs the responsibility of the school, parents and society. Take the responsibility of correct guidance and care.
Luo Xiaoxiao