I thank the distinguished readers who interacted with last week’s article, and among the beautiful comments that I received from a friend, Dr. Ziyad Al-Kahlout, it proposes a third pattern, which is the "wasp". This encouraged me to review some features of the wasp and behaviors that resemble the behavior of the wasp in humans. Perhaps some experienced at some point Childhood is a painful sting from a real wasp, it is painful but not harmful, but that sting is not as much as the pain caused by a bite of a person of our species characterized by the characteristics of a wasp, what are those features, and how do we avoid them and deal with their pain?
Wasps swarms attack some regions in the world, and usually they cause dozens of deaths every year due to their deadly bites and pose a risk to human life, while less dangerous species steal the bees ’efforts by seizing the honey they produced and do not hesitate to kill bees as well, and unfortunately we meet in our lives Some human beings do similar hostile actions, they do not work hard, and they offer nothing positive other than lying in wait with their peers and opportunities to bite them with bites of varying toxicity, it may be a really fatal bite that causes functional, social or financial harm, and sometimes the bite does not cause great harm, but it It causes inconvenience and strains of relationships and drains a lot of human energy, and this disgraceful behavior can be understood when there are conflicts of interests, or that these harmful behaviors will benefit that offending person in some way, but what I do not completely understand is the kind of human that bites and hurts without any Reason and without benefit accustomed to them, and I cannot forget a colleague at the university, he did not hesitate to bite everyone who can bite without hesitation, and he boasted about it and told it whenever the opportunity arose, he enjoyed that action an indescribable pleasure, he was m A remote governorate, and by virtue of being the oldest in the area, the parents in the area advised him of good for their younger children than him in the same college, so he would inform them about false news about their children and would tell them all the time, which would cause great tension between the children and their families, and even this person came to cause A big problem between his parents on purpose!
I don’t know if there was a successful treatment for the wasp’s character, but perhaps one day an experiment will happen to him that will make him regain consciousness and realize what he is doing, and perhaps guidance will come from God Almighty, but there is no harm from consulting a psychiatrist, and in our turn we have to face this person in case one of them speaks, And avoid it and not deal with it.
I don’t know if there was a cure for the wasp’s character, but maybe one day he will experience an experiment that makes him regain consciousness and realizes what he is doing.
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