[Same period] Deng Yuxiang, a first-year student of Beijing Economic Development Zone School attached to the National People's Congress
I hope my mother will always be young and beautiful, mother I love you.
[Commentary] May 10 is Mother's Day. Early in the morning, Deng Yuxiang sent his mother Wang Ping a festive blessing. Talking about the time spent with the son during the epidemic, Wang Ping said that having more time to accompany her son makes her feel very happy, but the dispute with her son has greatly touched her.
[Same period] Deng Yuxiang's mother Wang Ping
The thing that crashed me the most was that one day, after arguing about something trivial, I discovered that the child would talk back. (He never talked back before?) Never (no). I also went back to start thinking deeply, and began to reflect. In this period of time, which is the time to accompany my children, how should I re-examine myself.
[Commentary] In order to ease the parent-child relationship, Wang Ping took his son to skip the ropes and do manual work. The son became more lively and thoughtful, and the mother-child relationship was drawn closer. This time at home becomes an opportunity for mutual understanding and mutual growth.
[Same period] Deng Yuxiang's mother Wang Ping
In the past, there may not be so much time to be with the children. Now it is precisely through the special period of the epidemic. I think it is a new opportunity for parental responsibility. The school has also arranged some more colorful and small activities to allow parents and children to do some handicrafts. For example, what impressed me the most is why the dough gets bigger? This will bring the children to explore science together, and do it by hand, I think it is still very meaningful.
[Same period] Deng Yuxiang, a first-year student of Beijing Economic Development Zone School attached to the National People's Congress
My mother can be with me all the time, and the happiest and unhappy things can let my mother know first. I want to make a better gift for my mother than in previous years. I help my mother do a little more housework. I try to do it myself when I study, so as not to worry my mother.
【Explanation】 Children are in adolescence, and long-term home also brings challenges to this kind of parent-child relationship. Before the epidemic, because of busy work, Sun Aizhen and her daughter Nie Wenhao spent little time with each other, and the communication between mother and daughter was only a few words. During the epidemic, Sun Aizhen had been working from home, so she and her daughter who had studied at home started the "long companionship" mode. She began to think about how to get along with her daughter.
[Same period] Nie Wenhao's mother Sun Aizhen
At the beginning of the online class, she was sometimes sleepy, and from time to time she might pick up her mobile phone and read messages sent by her classmates. If I said directly that this is not the case, the child will have a deeper disgust. A small family meeting was held to let her make arrangements for her own study, and the rest time allowed her to have a plan for herself. We can use her suggestion as a reference and let her recognize it. (Now) The changes are quite large, and the arrangements are particularly orderly. We usually run together, go to the community, and watch movies together.
[Commentary] Do housework together, watch movies together ... In the interactions, Sun Aizhen has found a suitable mode for getting along with each other, so the mother-daughter relationship becomes more harmonious.
[Same period] Nie Wenhao's mother Sun Aizhen
I used to lose my temper, so I said what you have to do, and now I will change myself and say, is it okay? She can do it. If it is not possible, she says that her suggestion is discussed now. When making a piece of cake, we checked online how to do it. It was a failure and unsuccessful, but I was also very happy to help me clean up the kitchen together. We are just like being friends. We are closer than our loved ones. I have never experienced it before. I guess there will be few conflicts in the future.
[Same period] Nie Wenhao, a senior student in Beijing Fengtai Second Middle School
She will do things with me that she hasn't done before, such as cooking together and showing me something I like. (Mom) Not only do you have to worry about your work, and then do these housework, but also think of a way to cook for us, it is quite laborious, seems to be closer, and she seems to know me better .
[Commentary] As in previous years, Nie Wenhao had prepared Mother's Day gifts for his mother early. For Sun Aizhen, a daughter's gratitude and a hug are worth a thousand words.
[Same period] Nie Wenhao, a senior student in Beijing Fengtai Second Middle School
I heard before that she liked a lipstick and bought it with Chinese New Year's money. When I was shopping in the mall, she said that it was really beautiful and bought it for her.
[Same period] Nie Wenhao's mother Sun Aizhen
There is no need to say how valuable the gift is, just have me in my heart. Even if she said something that moved me, I was already very content.
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