Dialogue with the child for 28 years of wrong party: Even if it is not his own son, I still love him
After knowing that Zhang Qi (pseudonym) was not his own son, Jiang Yanli (pseudonym) "cut the heart."
In the past 28 years, Zhang Qi's growth has been closely integrated with Jiang Yanli's family. "Zhang Qi's small eyes have a single eyelid, and he doesn't look like my husband, but he is like me, lively and cheerful." Jiang Yanli said to love Zhang Qi "love into the bone marrow."
In June 1992, in the delivery room of the Second Affiliated Hospital of Kaifeng Medical College in Henan Province (now renamed the Huaihe Hospital of Henan University), Jiang Yanli and the pregnant women in the delivery room delivered the baby, and the baby was taken to the delivery room by the nurse.
On February 17, 2020, Jiang Yanli's son Zhang Qi was found to have advanced liver cancer. When Jiang Yanli decided to cut the liver to save her son, she found that Zhang Qi was not her and her husband's biological son.
After finding the child ’s birth certificate that year, Jiang Yanli followed the midwife ’s information and found that her own son might be in Zhumadian, Henan.
With the assistance of the local police in Zhumadian, it took only 15 days for Jiang Yanli to find her biological son.
On April 17, Jiang Yanli and his own son met at the Zhumadian High Speed Railway Station in Henan. For the first time in 28 years, Jiang Yanli refused to let go of embracing her own biological son for the first time.
The 28-year life of two children swapped, one lives in Zhumadian, Henan, the sister at home has mental problems, the adoptive mother suffers from cancer, and becomes an auxiliary police after graduation; one lives in Jiujiang, Jiangxi, 26 years old married and gives birth At the age of 28 years old, but suffering from liver cancer due to family genetics, waiting for treatment.
On the 26th, Jiang Yanli told Peng Mei News about the misplaced lives of the two children in these 28 years.
【dialogue】
"Fate is so cruel"
Surging News: What are your plans for the next step?
Jiang Yanli: This matter has progressed so far. We hope that the hospital can communicate with us and talk about it. We also want to protect our rights, but we still hope that the hospital will proceed from humanitarian perspective and help us to treat. Our situation is very difficult now. A course of treatment of more than 100,000 is at my own expense. Can you help us and warm our hearts?
Surging News: How do you feel now that you know that your child is not a biological child?
Jiang Yanli: After knowing that this child is not my biological son, I still feel bad for him and feel like a knife. I'm thinking about such a good child. I have raised for 28 years, how can I be willing? I love to go into the bone marrow. Although it is not a blood relationship, he was raised by me. His little bit of growth and development process are all integrated with me.
I can't bear him, so I still want to work hard to save him. Yesterday, Zhang Qi ’s lover watched the news and cried with me. His lover was afraid that I would give up Zhang Qi and let me not leave him behind. I said that I would n’t be the one who was suffering no matter how hard I was. I had to find a way to save him.
Surging News: What is Zhang Qi's growth trajectory over the past 28 years?
Jiang Yanli: He was very smart since childhood. Because my family is also special. I am the youngest child in the family, and the child I gave birth to is the youngest in the whole family. The family loves him very much. Zhang Qi went to a key elementary school when he was young, and went to Jiujiang No. 1 Middle School. When he was a child, his results were very outstanding. He won a national award in the Olympic Mathematics Competition, and the computer also won many awards throughout the province. When we reached high school, we were afraid that we would be tired of him, so we didn't force him to study. Although his grades declined, he eventually went to college.
After graduating from university, we wanted him to be a doctor. He wanted to go to Shanghai to start his own job. After his first job as a middle-level company in Shanghai, he went to Ningbo to start a business and e-commerce. Everything is going smooth. Unexpectedly, fate was so cruel, and advanced liver cancer was detected during the epidemic.
Surging News: Did you find anything wrong with Zhang Qi's body before?
Jiang Yanli: It was good before. He said that he recently felt a little pain in his back and had a feeling of pulling. As a result, when he went to the hospital for examination, he had advanced liver cancer. At that time it felt like a thunderbolt, I can't imagine how young and healthy you are, why is liver cancer late? During the consultation with the child, many people asked me “Do you have hepatitis B? Do your lover have hepatitis B?” I doubt that our family has no history of hepatitis B.
Surging News: How do you react when you detect inconsistent bleeding patterns?
Jiang Yanli: The test results are dazzling. I told my husband, look at what happened, the blood types are inconsistent. At the time, we thought that there were too many people who were tested by the hospital in Shanghai and we got it wrong. So he lied to Zhang Qi and asked him to do a test again. The test result is the same as the first one. We are blood type A and he is type AB. We decided to go to the most authoritative DNA identification center in Jiangxi for identification.
The results of the identification results write: do not support me as the biological mother of Zhang Qi.
Recalling the bits and pieces of these 28 years, although Zhang Qi has small eyes and a single eyelid and does not look like my husband, but he has a character like me and loves to laugh. We said that he must be like a mother.
Surging News: What is the scene of seeing your own son?
Jiang Yanli: With the help of the local police in Zhumadian, Henan, it took me only 15 days to find my biological son. On April 17, we met at Zhumadian High Speed Rail Station. At the first glance, I knew that this was my son. He cried for the first time in 28 years and refused to let go.
Surging News: What did your biological son look like at first sight?
Jiang Yanli: He is tall, his mouth is exactly the same as mine, and his eyebrows are like dad. Later, we went to his birthplace and knew that the parents who raised him had a difficult life. There is a "silly sister", his mother is also liver cancer, when his family was poor, when his parents went to do business, he followed his parents back and forth.
In such an environment, he grew up healthy and went to work in the local public security system. He really grew up in adversity.
[The following is a timeline of the two children ’s 28-year life-swapping change]:
In early June 1992, pregnant Jiang Yanli returned to Kaifeng's parents' home from Jiujiang, Jiangxi, to take leave and prepare for birth.
On June 15, 1992, Jiang Yanli and another pregnant woman, Ms. Du, gave birth to two baby boys at the Second Affiliated Hospital of Kaifeng Medical College almost simultaneously. The two boys were then taken to the nursery by the nurse.
On June 18, 1992, after discharge, Jiang Yanli took the baby Zhang Qi from the nurse, and Ms. Du took the baby Guo Guo (a pseudonym).
In 1995, Zhang Qi was diagnosed with hepatitis B during the physical examination before admission to kindergarten, but neither Jiang Yanli nor her husband had a history of hepatitis B.
In 2002, Ms. Du and her husband were laid off from the original unit in Kaifeng and took Guo Guo from Kaifeng to Zhumadian City, Henan Province.
On February 17, 2020, Jiang Yanli's 28-year-old son Zhang Qi was found to have liver cancer, and Jiang Yanli wanted to cut the liver to treat the child.
In late March 2020, Jiang Yanli's family came to Zhongshan Hospital affiliated to Shanghai Fudan University. She was willing to donate her liver to A Bin. But the physical examination found that Zhang Qi's blood type is AB, while she and her husband are type A. Subsequently, the two went to the Shenzhou Judicial Identification Center in Jiangxi Province to do the paternity test.
On March 26, 2020, Jiang Yanli received a paternity test report, which showed that Jiang Yanli and her husband were not Zhang Qi's biological parents.
On April 12, 2020, with the help of Zhumadian police, Jiang Yanli saw Guo Guo, who was also born in the Second Affiliated Hospital of Kaifeng Medical College on June 15, 1992.
On April 16, 2020, the second paternity test report showed that Jiang Yanli and her husband were Guo Guo's biological parents.
On April 17, 2020, Jiang Yanli went to Zhumadian, Henan to recognize Guo Guo.
Surging news reporter Yu Yan, intern Shi Hang