The questions reflect the personalities of their owners. There is an intelligent question, stupid, bold question, and a question that does not make sense. If someone asked you to ask you a stupid question and smiled, know that he is smart, and that you are approaching a good discussion.
If you were asked what is the most beautiful meal that you have ever had in your life? Be aware that the question is restricted, and the answer is often difficult and you do not have it.
And if I was asked by a person with a smartphone, what films are there in the cinema? Know that he has his intentions if he is close to you, and he wants to philosophize on you if you do not know him well because the cinema application is on his phone! And inevitably the application will provide him with more adequate answers than your poor memory.
Among the most frequently asked questions: What do you suggest me to watch in cinema / Netflix? The question bears a hidden side that you will see if you know the person well, and you will not see him if you do not know the questioner well.
For example, you know your friend who is close enough to recognize his taste, from food and clothing to perfumes and movies, then your mind will cancel everything that does not relate to your friend's taste and will suggest what suits him, and this is exactly the "Netflix" mechanism that suggests products to you on its platform.
A former colleague asked me about my suggestions in the cinema, without seeing the hidden side of the question, and at the first suggestion she said that she wanted realistic films, so I gave her exactly what she wanted.
Question What do you want to eat? Very general and time is wasted, unless you are a selfish person who does not think about who you are with, or if you suffer from allergies and know exactly what suits you best. If the person is kind and generous, he will say I eat what you eat, and this answer carries a lot of selflessness by introducing yourself to himself, and if he is selfish, he will remember exactly what he wants to eat, except in the case of close friends, then the answer is often spontaneous, not selfish.
The deep question comes when someone asks you to explain or analyze an issue, which may agree or disagree with your proposition, and there is no disagreement, but it turns into an opportunity to philosophize on you if you notice that the questioner is holding your character to repeat what you say, for example someone asked me about the reasons for the Hollywood movie bankruptcy, and when I came to the reasons he interrupted me And he said that he is nostalgic for the past decade and before the time of beautiful films and began to mention the names of certain films!
This is a philosopher and claimant of experience he does not possess, because the bankruptcy of an industry does not mean only bad films, and if we judge from this perspective only, the past decade and nineties had a significant share of bad films.
These are cumulative things known as auditing, monitoring, reading and comparison, and do not appear evident until after the contract has passed, this also applies to many industries such as cars, smartphones, and others.
In Arabic: In the past there were questions of verification, that is, the person is not sure of a piece of information and asks you about it. If he asks you once, he has a strong memory, twice about the same information, so forgive him for forgetting and lack of focus, three or more, know that he is stupid. Today in the era of "Google" If someone asked you about an obvious information that he finds in Google, know that the question is stupid and did not come back to verification, and this is one of the oddities of this time.
Abdulla.AlQamzi@emaratalyoum.com
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Question What do you want to eat? Very general and waste time, unless you are a selfish person, do not think about who is with you, or if you suffer from allergies and know exactly what suits you best.