Humans always seek to maximize their gains and to delight themselves, and often in the midst of the pressures of life and lack of objectivity, some people make mistakes either in the framework of work or on the social level. Our view, and often tightening the screws on the other party and put it in the «Corner», and this is one of the serious mistakes that we make, which is to try to prove with conclusive evidence and in front of others that the other party is wrong.
In fact, we will not benefit from "stripping" the other side, embarrassing and shedding his face. It is very important to give the other side the opportunity to save his face.
What is the use of embarrassing the other party and prove his mistake, especially in front of others ?! Better to give him the opportunity to review himself and learn from his mistakes, and if it is necessary to advise and evaluate let it be in the framework of privacy and confidentiality, and the intention to help improve the situation and ensure the continuity of the relationship, we are all human beings and we all make mistakes, but we all have a degree of modesty and is not happy to be embarrassed and blamed no matter what The size was wrong. In his writings, Dale Carnegie talked about golden rules in winning people, sustaining a good relationship with them, and even turning enemies into friends. One of the most important rules mentioned by Carnegie is to give others the opportunity to preserve their dignity and image, we will benefit nothing if we show victory over the other party, whether it is Physically or morally, it is better to share the victory with the other party and contain it rather than prepare it.
One of the other rules related to good Muasher is not to rush to judge others and hold them accountable and complain about what they are doing. Before their weaknesses .. This applies to all our relations, whether with our colleagues at work or friends or even members of our family and the closest relatives, but we must start with relatives first understanding of what is known, and we should not consider our relationship with them an acquired right and a foregone conclusion, on the contrary we must be Consciously aware and care about the world Let us remember the words of Allâh the Almighty, “If you were rude and rude, you would not have turned away from you”. [Al Imran: 159]. Happy new year.
• What is the use of embarrassing the other party and prove his mistake, especially in front of others ?! Better give him the opportunity to review himself and learn from his mistakes.
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