Compromise, values, security... These signs that indicate that you have found the love of your life

Alexandre Dalifard 7:02 p.m., March 07, 2023

Is it really possible to find the love of your life?

And how do you know?

In a relationship, there are times when one of the spouses wonders about their feelings.

He will wonder if he lives with the right person, or if he really likes the whole personality of his partner.

However, you have to accept not to be satisfied on all points.

Perfection does not exist as confirmed by Caroline Weill, psychologist and guest in

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“The right person is the one who is perfect for you,” she emphasizes.

Compromise

For the psychologist, certain signs do not deceive.

"You have to know that you're never satisfied. You never have everything, you have to accept it. But isn't that just one of the signs that you've found the right person when you Is ready to compromise? Not compromises but compromises, if only to please the other, because it's a very natural reflex when you love," says Caroline Weill.

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Be yourself

The question of physique seems to be an important criterion.

And yet, for the psychologist, you have to be yourself.

"The right person means that you can be exactly yourself. You don't have to play a role and you are not afraid to show yourself as you are, even for a first meeting. In reality, the meeting, we do not decide it. I believe that we should not deny this part of authenticity which also founds the meeting", underlines the psychologist at the microphone of Julia Vignali and Mélanie Gomez.

Agree on values

Some couples also have political or even religious differences.

On the other hand, for Caroline Weill, "we agree on the values".

"That is to say, what is a priority for us. What is most important? Is it fidelity, reciprocity, the education of children or even money, which is also a central question in the couple? Concretely, the sharing of values ​​is the most important, "insists the specialist.

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To feel safe

Finally, psychologist Caroline Weill discusses the notion of security in a couple.

"It's not just dealing with adversity, but feeling safe with that person," she explains.

"Whatever we say, whatever we do, we know that we are not going to be badly judged because there is benevolence on the other side and there is a welcome. So, we don't You're not afraid to show yourself exactly as you are. That's security, and that's also reciprocity," concludes the psychologist.