At school, at work, in love... Is life really easier when you're beautiful?

Romain Rouillard 6:00 p.m., January 06, 2023

It is often associated with good or kindness and is very generally valued in our Western societies.

Beauty and physical appearance, oh so subjective elements some would say, remain the preferred criteria for evaluating a person at first sight.

At the microphone of Julia Vignali and Mélanie Gomez on Europe 1, Jean-François Amadieu, professor of sociology and human resources management, listed the advantages which the "beautiful" or the "beautiful" can take advantage of throughout their life. . 

Beautiful and well-dressed children: the darlings of teachers

Benefits that can arise from childhood on the benches of primary school.

"On the subject of the 'premium for beauty', the oldest studies we have relate to schools where we see that teachers favor the cute child, the well-dressed child", develops Jean-François Amadieu.

A conciliatory treatment that is illustrated in different ways.

"Not only do they have better results, but we will also forgive them for small mistakes and nonsense," says the sociologist. 

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On the contrary

, "the one who is less beautiful, when he does something stupid, pays the price".

This label that we gladly stick on the forehead of some students ends up being reflected in their behavior.

"By dint of seeing that you are appreciated, that you are given a personality, you will end up conforming to the character. You will become the one who will be violent or who will be nice", assures Jean-François Amadieu.

A vicious (or virtuous) circle initiated by purely physical considerations. 

Once in college, again, the "beautiful" will reap fewer taunts than the others.

"The first factor of mockery, a sidelining in college and high school, is the look and the physique", notes Jean-François Amadieu.

In love: the physical criterion remains number one

A little later, when the time comes to find love, the physical argument naturally plays a preponderant role.

“People always talk to you about inner beauty, say they look at other things, etc. In reality, the physical aspect matters a lot,” certifies the sociologist, taking dating apps as an example.

"On the internet, you will notice that it is essentially an image. And it is on this criterion of physical appearance that the first choice is forged."

However, when it comes to their love life, people with good looks can also pay the ransom of fame.

“First there is the idea that the person would be inaccessible and for many, beautiful people are people who will not be faithful in love or who will be selfish”, develops Jean-François Amadieu.

A professional asset 

Disadvantages that are nevertheless mocked by recruiters who will also tend to favor people who are physically spoiled by nature.

“Some studies have been done in the United States and I have done some in France too. We sent the CV of the same woman with a photo on which she is made up and another in the natural. And we looked at what it was happening: and I confirm to you that by being made up, you will look, in the eyes of the recruiter, more intelligent and competent", affirms the sociologist who warns however: "it only works with so-called professional make-up, not glamorous makeup for Saturday night". 

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Finally, Jean-François Amadieu emphasizes the "beauty bonus" which generally rewards the most beautiful employees who are more easily granted a salary increase.

One more advantage that attractive people can enjoy in our Western societies.