The most prominent of them are the deviation of one of the parents, family disputes, bad companions and cruelty

Dhahi Khalfan: 10 reasons that threaten family security and the future of children

Dhahi Khalfan during a dialogue session organized by Al-Amin on the dangers of the age group from 10 to 17 years old.

Cinematography: Mostafa Qassemi

 The Deputy Chief of Police and Public Security in Dubai, Lieutenant-General Dhahi Khalfan Tamim, warned of 10 main reasons that threaten family security, most notably the deviation of a parent’s behavior, family disputes and divorce, preoccupation with children, the low economic situation of some families, excessive pampering of children, bad companions, and failure school, negative media represented in suspicious means of communication and platforms, cruelty in the treatment of children, and loans.

During a dialogue session organized by the Secretary Service of the State Security Service, in cooperation with the Dubai neighborhood councils, he revealed the danger of the age stage from 10 to 17 years, as it represents a highly revealing stage for the future of the son, and is known as the seven years of delinquency, during which the adolescent goes through struggles Internal, physical, physiological and psychological changes, if he passes them safely to the stage of maturity, he becomes a successful person to a large extent.

In detail, Lieutenant-General Dhahi Khalfan said, during the session moderated by colleague Marwan Al-Hel, that there are basic threats to family security, foremost among which are family disputes that should not occur in front of children, as this behavior represents a direct cause of children's deviation, due to the stubbornness of parents and their differences that are often It is simple and can be contained, because children are affected by quarrels, and it moves with them from home to school, and affects their relationships with others, causing the child to live in a state of anxiety and tension that affects his studies and his future.

He added that the preoccupation of both the father and the mother in his activities and work is also one of the main threats to family security, making the son like an orphan, and leaving him vulnerable to external dangers that can destroy him, especially those that come from sources such as social media, pointing out that he cannot be He forgets the case of a child whose father, who married another woman, neglected his first family, and the patrols discovered that the child sleeps in an abandoned house, affected by his low psychological state, and then resorted to theft, even though his father is a known man, and when he was arrested, he justified his action by wanting to test his father's reaction. , and whether he would care about it or ask about it or not.

Dhahi Khalfan pointed out that divorce may be a solution to some quarrels when done in goodness, but it often becomes a spark for the start of a fierce war, stressing that divorce should not be an easy decision, such as some cases that occur for trivial reasons, such as disagreement over encouraging a football team, Because the separation violently affects the children, so it must be the last option, after exhausting friendly solutions, especially since many divorced spouses express great regret at a later time.

He stressed that children live in suffering because of family disputes in the courts, turning them into a tool to abuse each other, and the mother or father deliberately dragging the children into the dispute, and pitting them against the other party, so the child grows up to hate his mother or father.

He pointed out that among the threats to family security is the economic situation of families in need or need. The narrow situation affects the psychological state of the family, and imposes on it a kind of constant tension and anxiety, calling for the establishment of a zakat fund, aimed primarily at helping these families.

He pointed out that extravagance and extravagance in spending on children is, on the other hand, another reason to undermine their security and threaten their future, calling for achieving a kind of balance in order to preserve the children's behavior, and to hold them accountable for their spending methods, pointing out that pampering the children may be a reason for the separation of the parents later when the son spoils, Each holds the other responsible for its corruption.

He explained that bad companions are also a major cause of juvenile delinquency, which imposes on parents the need to monitor their children and get to know their friends, warning as well of the consequences of academic failure, which may be a reason for the dissolution of the family, when each of the parents holds the responsibility of the failure of the son to the other.

Dahi Khalfan added that some homes are considered a repelling environment for children, so they wander in the streets on their faces, because of the treatment and cruelty of their parents, which makes them easy prey for perverts and bad companions.

Lieutenant-General Dhahi Khalfan touched on what he called "economic education" for children, which is how to educate them about the culture of rational spending, without stinginess or extravagance, pointing out that the Emirati family may spend more than 40% on non-essential matters, especially with regard to buying cars.

He revealed that some newly employed young people are reluctant to marry early, while one of them buys a car for 300,000 or 400,000 as soon as he graduates and is appointed to a job, and that the cars owned by some may be more expensive than the value of his house itself.

Dhahi Khalfan said that he did not forget on his visit to a prestigious German university, where he found hundreds of bicycles in front of its campus, used by students and professors to come to the university, and when he visited a secondary school in Dubai, he saw the finest cars in front of it, stressing that this culture must change, The world is going through difficult times, and it is necessary to learn how to conserve our resources.

Al-Muhairi: “Al-Amin” service is keen on direct communication with the public

The Second Deputy Director-General of the State Security Service in Dubai, Major General Tamim Al Muhairi, said that the "Amin" service of the agency is keen to enhance communication with members of society by several means, most notably direct communication through dialogue sessions organized in neighborhood councils, in cooperation with partners in the authority. Community development, because of its great importance in delivering direct messages to the public, especially from parents when it comes to family security and raising children.

He added that the "Al-Ameen" service focuses on consolidating societal awareness within the framework of its strategy aimed at protecting young people and immunizing them from external influences that directly affect values ​​such as loyalty and belonging, pointing out that the session hosted the Deputy Chief of Police and Public Security in Dubai, Lieutenant-General Dhahi Khalfan Tamim, It dealt with several axes related to one of the most important societal issues, which is family security, and the relationship between parents and children.

He stressed that the role of the “Amin” service of the State Security Service is not limited to the awareness aspect of organizing and contributing to raising issues and topics related to the security of the individual and the family, but it is keen to strengthen its channels of communication with the public, solicit their opinions, and receive their observations and communications, even if simple, because of its conviction. They are key partners in maintaining the security of society and enhancing its cohesion.

Julfar: Neighborhood councils enhance belonging and adherence to national identity

The Director General of the Community Development Authority in Dubai, Ahmed Julfar, said that the primary role of neighborhood councils revolves around promoting community affiliation and adherence to national identity, pointing out that the councils have, over the years, been an integral part of the culture of Emirati society, and a center for promoting joint work among the people of the regions. and preserve their national identity.

He stressed the authority's keenness to host Lieutenant General Dhahi Khalfan, because of his pioneering role in working to protect young people from intrusive pests, and support the elements of family cohesion, noting that the family was and will remain the first safety valve in protecting children first, then protecting society, which derives its solidity and cohesion. of family strength.

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Defining years in a teenager's life lead him to success or deviation.

The preoccupation of the father and the mother is one of the main threats to family security that makes the son like an orphan.

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