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Shared rights between spouses (1-2)
“And in the number of one of you there is charity. They said, ‘Oh, Messenger of God, does one of us fulfill his desires and have a reward for it?’”
He said: Did you see if he put it in a forbidden, would he have a burden?
So if he does it in a halaal him pay".
A man should not be preoccupied with what prevents the wife from enjoying her right from him, whether the preoccupation is in worship or trade, when it was narrated that a woman came to Omar Ibn Al-Khattab, may God be pleased with him, and said: “Oh, Commander of the Faithful, I have never seen a man better than my husband, by God.” He spent the night standing, and his day remained fasting, so he asked forgiveness for her and praised her, and she got up and went back, Kaab said: O Commander of the Faithful, this woman is complaining about her husband about her lack of consort. Ali married her husband, and he was brought and said to him: These of your wives are suspicious. He said: Is there food or drink?
He said: No, but she doubts because of her lack of sacrifice, then Kaab said: God has made lawful for you two women, three and four, so you have three days and nights in which you worship your Lord, and they have a day and a night. The people of Basra.
As for the other matter, it pertains to good relations, for each of the spouses is required to be kind to each other by striving for what pleases the other, such as good speech, respect for opinion, tolerance and cooperation in goodness, repelling harm, and keeping away from what brings discord and conflict, because one’s need for the other is like his need for His dress, for His Almighty saying: “They are clothing for you, and you are clothing for them.” Surat Al-Baqarah. And the Almighty says, “And live with them with kindness,” Surat An-Nisa. It is good cohabitation also that the relationship between them is based on mutual respect, and that each performs his duties. And each of them plays his role in building the family and raising children, and the Messenger, may God bless him and grant him peace, says: “The most complete believers in faith are those with the best manners, and the best of you are the best of your women in character.”
This was confirmed and indicated by Article (54) of the Federal Personal Status Law with regard to the mutual rights and duties between spouses, as it stipulated: For the good of the family, the care of the children, and their upbringing, in a manner that ensures their upbringing in righteousness.”
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