Chinanews.com, August 10, according to Pakistan's "China Business Daily", open the "Hi Pakistan" WeChat public account, and you will see the following profile: "We and our lover are from China and Pakistan respectively. We hope to write our own The true story of life, eliminate the world’s prejudice and discrimination against transnational love, and at the same time help people who are in doubt as much as possible to find the love in their hearts."

　　Wang Meng (pseudonym) is an authentic Northeast girl and the founder of the WeChat public account.

In 2015, when Wang Meng was still a junior at Shenyang Agricultural University, he first met Bill, a Pakistani who was studying for a Ph.D.

Three years later, the two entered the marriage hall.

This love with a "foreigner" has been criticized by many people.

Introduce a real "Batie"

　　"Regardless of relatives or strangers, knowing that my husband is a Pakistani will doubt and consternation." In Wang Meng's view, these stereotypes are concentrated in: Some people sneer at transnational marriages.

Some people will directly rise to the national level and think that "Pakistan" people are unreliable.

　　In the public account of "Hi Pakistan", there are two love letters written by Bill to Wang Meng, which record the sweet details of their relationship and the love poems written by the Pakistani boy to Wang Meng.

In Wang Meng's eyes, her husband is a reliable existence.

Even if there are cultural differences between the two parties, there will be differences in time concept, way of thinking and language expression, but the other party will take the initiative to communicate, understand and respect themselves.

　　"A lot of social media will slander, saying that they (Pakistans) are poor and ignorant and tarnish our girls." Wang Meng added, "Most Pakistanis are very friendly, not as scary as online posting."

　　Beginning in the 1960s, with the signing of a friendship treaty between China and Pakistan, the two countries began a "honeymoon period" that lasted for decades.

According to the latest data released by the Ministry of Commerce of China, there will be nearly 14,000 Chinese and overseas Chinese in Pakistan in 2020.

From economic and trade exchanges to cultural exchanges, more and more Chinese come to Pakistan to become "Pakistani daughter-in-law" and "Pakistani son-in-law".

　　In order to let more people understand the "Pakistan Rail" objectively and help their families get rid of the "cold eyes" around them, Wang Meng has written 75 public account articles since July 2020, most of which introduce Pakistan’s local food, clothing, housing and transportation, and her presence in Pakistan. True feelings.

　　Wang Meng's (pseudonym) husband Bill's hometown is located in Punjab, Pakistan.

Local men have a higher social status.

In some public places, men can sit on chairs, while women can only kneel on the ground.

Wang Meng sometimes needs to go to the village to do as he does, wearing the headscarf of a Muslim woman.

In the article "The Adventures of Pakistan with Milk Tea Sauce", Wang Meng shared his experience of food poisoning in Pakistan and heatstroke because of not adapting to the hot weather.

　　"Pakistan is not without its shortcomings," she said.

"I just hope that through my own article, more people will not be blindly'keyboard man', and look at transnational love and so-called'foreigners' in a more objective manner."

The pursuit of love knows no borders

　　Until now, Wang Meng still vividly remembers the details of the wedding three years ago.

　　"Our wedding in Pakistan lasted two days." In his words, Wang Meng revealed happiness.

"On the first day of the ceremony, some juniors came to the main stage with colorful candle trays. After they were seated, decorations and large plates of desserts were placed in front of them. The whole ceremony was repeated three steps. , Throw money, feed, and take a group photo. The next day, the newlyweds will go to a banquet hall to receive blessings and gifts from relatives and friends."

　　As Bill mentioned in the public account: Love has no limits, no boundaries, no race or culture, and even religion has no difference in the face of love.

　　"In Wudaokou, Beijing, I know a couple who opened a Pakistani restaurant there. The hostess was an unmarriageist before she met her Pakistani husband, and now the two are very sweet." Wang Meng said.

　　Since being with the "Pakistan Iron" at home, Wang Meng has also joined many WeChat groups related to Pakistan.

In one of the groups of about 200 people, most of them were "Batie" maidens or in-laws.

"The oldest sister I know has been married for more than 10 years. I heard that there is another eldest sister in the group who has been married here for about 30 years."

　　Due to the epidemic, Wang Meng and her husband stayed in Pakistan temporarily.

Currently, Bill has applied for the opportunity to study as a postdoctoral fellow in China.

Speaking of future plans, Wang Meng said that he had already planned to have a baby.

I look forward to the end of the epidemic soon, and embark on the flight home with my husband as soon as possible, hoping that the child can be born in this land of China.