May be a teacher

Maybe a teacher April 7th 19:51

Even though I haven't asked for it, I'll tell you this and that ... Isn't there such a "teacher" near you?

Maybe I'm also a "teacher" ...?

I thought about what it takes to "teach people" with a single sticker posted at the bowling alley.

Contents of this article

▽ "STOP! Teaching Devil"

　Many reactions to SNS Why?

▽ People in the position of teaching are also worried

▽ Understanding with psychology

▽ Checking your "teaching magic" ▽ What

　is the technology for "teaching"

that I asked a professional coach

(Network news department reporter Mihoko Tanii Hiromi Akimoto Kuni Shinichiro Naka)

What on earth is it?

The photo of the poster with shocking characters printed in a large red font became a hot topic on SNS.

Strong impact ...

What the hell is this poster !?

I was curious and contacted the person who posted it.

The post was made by a man in his 40s, "Kin-chan Foot Pico-kai".

When bowling visited the bowling alley with his friends as a hobby, he encountered this poster.

Actually, I've been worried about the existence of some people in the bowling field for some time.

Even though I wasn't asked, I often saw people with a long history of bowling instructing other customers who seemed to be beginners how to throw.

The poster called attention to such people as "teachers".

Kim-chan Foot Pico-kai

"I posted to the bowling alley with the thought that he said well."

There is also an urgent voice in the background

When I investigated to interview the store, this bowling alley "Shonan Bowl" has been familiar to local people for nearly 50 years in Kamakura City, Kanagawa Prefecture, but due to the decrease in the number of users due to the influence of the new coronavirus etc. It was closed last month (March).

We spoke to a spokeswoman for Shonan Monorail, who ran the Shonan Bowl.

A spokeswoman said,

"We are getting more and more complaints from our customers that we want them to stop teaching magic. Similar annoying acts occur not only at our stores but also at bowling alleys nationwide. It is known that there is something, and I wanted everyone to use it comfortably. "

The background to the strong call is that these actions have been repeated.

"Actually, this isn't the first time I've put up a poster. A few years ago, there were more complaints about the teaching demons, and the poster alerted me, and after a while, it didn't fit perfectly. But recently. The number of complaints has increased again, and some of them said, "I'm telling you even though I didn't ask, and my body feels sticky.

I love bowling, but I don't want to come anymore. "

How do you perceive the response of the poster?

"I'm surprised to hear that there are people like that at golf courses and arcades. I think there is a kindness that I want to teach, but there are various ways of thinking about the other person. think"

I'm here!

Around us ...

I think you all have the experience of encountering a teaching demon.

The reporter (Akimoto) himself remembered being confused when he was unilaterally told by his senior mom about child-rearing that he should do XX by the age of XX and that XX is absolutely good for lessons.

On SNS, there were many posts about teaching demons at work.

"There is a" teaching demon "in my workplace. I see with warm eyes that the people around me are teaching again."

"There are people who give advice to the workplace about 10 times a day, so it's rather And stress. Even though I'm starting to find my own way, when I'm repeatedly told, "This is better," it becomes "noisy." "

Are you a teacher?

I asked in the city

I also want to hear the voices of the teachers.

As expected, I'm reluctant to ask my acquaintance's boss directly ...

So, the destination is Shinbashi, Tokyo.

It's not as busy as it used to be because of the corona wreckage, but there are many people in suits.

I was very rude to the people on the road and asked, "Maybe you're a" teaching demon "?"

The first person to talk to was a man in his 60s.

A man in his 60s

"When I'm drinking, I tend to be a teacher. I tend to talk about heroic stories, such as" I used to do this kind of thing. " I'm careful to keep it to two, but I don't have a chance to tell a heroic story because I don't have a drinking party at work in Corona these days. "

When asked if he had become a teacher in the corona wreck ...

"It's not a corona illness. It's because remote work has progressed and more efficiency has been required. I think it's hard for new employees because I can't afford to teach slowly."

A man in his fifties also asked about the worries unique to Corona.

A man in his 50s

"I'm currently training new employees, but since I'm online, I tend to teach one-sidedly. In that sense, I wonder if it's a" teaching demon. " It's annoying because he doesn't give me, but I try to see the facial expressions and reactions as much as possible. "

On the other hand, there are also such voices from women.

A woman who was in a position to teach

"In the past, there were many teaching demons in my uncle and sister at work, and I was worried because I was young, so I was worried because I was in a position to teach. I teach carefully while watching. "

It seems that the people in the position of teaching are also trying to avoid becoming a teaching demon while worrying and caring.

Psychology of Teaching Devil Why do people "want to teach"?

What is the psychology of the teaching demon?

Professor Mafumi Usui of Niigata Seiryo University, who is familiar with the psychological state of teaching in social psychology, pointed out two aspects.

(1) I love what I teach

I want others to like it too much, such as bowling like this time,

because I love it so

much that I want others to like it and become good at it.

That's why I noticed that I wanted to say "No, it's not", and I just told him.

(2) Teaching makes you feel better

The act of teaching allows you to stand above the other person and makes people feel better.

Professor Mafumi Usui, Niigata Seiryo University

"I can contribute to the things I love and feel good. I think this is the psychology of teaching demons."

"

You

may have the impression that there are many middle-aged and older men. However, uncle is not always the only teacher. There is a possibility regardless of age or gender. "

According to Professor Usui, there is such an experiment in psychology research.

A group is randomly divided into two groups, a teacher role and a student role, and the problem and its answer / explanation are given to the teacher role in advance.

In that state, the teacher role will be assigned to the student role.

Then, the teacher role tended to be more likely to feel "smart, smart, and personally superior."

It means that it is the same even if the roles are changed.

Yes, anyone can be a teacher.

What is your "teaching magic"?

After reading this far, many people may have been worried that "I may be a teacher ...".

What should I be careful about?

Mr. Masamichi Kimitsuka posted a comment on the poster at the beginning from the standpoint of the teacher.

From my experience as a professional coach on track and field and walking, who has led the university relay road race to Hakone relay road race, I asked him to point out points that need attention.

□ I think that my method is correct, so I think that others should do the same.

□ The person

I

talk to does not look at me or my facial expression is dark.

□ I think that teaching is to instruct and order.

□ I like to find and point out weaknesses of people □

I think that the evaluation of the

other person

should only look at the result

□ I think that the mistakes and mistakes of others should be pointed out immediately

□ It is better to teach everything from 1 to 10 Good

□ Often scared by the person

you

talk to

□ Issues and problems should be pointed out and resolved immediately by the

teacher □ Often do not care about the other person's schedule or convenience

□ Always

do what you want with

others I want to control

The more items you answered "yes", the more you should be careful.

Don't give advice !? Professional coach's "teaching method"

Mr. Kimitsuka seems to be conscious of "not giving advice" in his daily guidance.

What does it mean to not give advice to teach?

Professional coach Masamichi Kimitsuka

"I am conscious of what the person being taught wants to do and the answer for that person. If there are two options, A and B," You should take A. Instead of asking, "Which do you want to do, A or B?"

Mr. Kimitsuka said that he had failed because he once taught too much that it would be useful for players.

I asked at the end.

What do you need most to teach?

Mr. Kimitsuka

"I think it's important to have a relationship between the teaching side and the teaching side, and to look in the same direction. It's difficult to say" look at this "even though you don't want it. It may be faster, but it encourages you to think for your own. I think the teacher will be required to wait for it. "