[Global Times reporter Liu Haoran] "Sometimes I can't wait to push him out along the window"-the couple quarrel and quarrel, they will inevitably release some "cruel words", even the former "first lady" of the United States is no exception.
According to a report by the New York Post on the 7th, the 3rd of the next month is the 28th wedding anniversary of the former US President Obama and his wife. Michelle Obama talked about the marriage relationship with her husband in his latest podcast, and said frankly Even if you live with a good man like Obama, life will inevitably experience "ups and downs" and encourage young people to establish a positive view of marriage.
Data map: US President Barack Obama and his wife Michelle.
Michelle said in the show that young couples often face great pressure and fatigue during the stage of just giving birth; for a long period of time, both of them may feel unable to bear each other.
Michel recalled that soon after she became pregnant, she clearly felt the "role differentiation" between husband and wife, and deeply felt that "children can mess up married life."
For example, just when her body was "overwhelmed", her husband was still "wandering around". For this reason, her mentality was often unbalanced: "Why can he go to the gym? I still have cabbage on my chest (Cabbage) Applying breast leaves to breasts can alleviate the increase in breast milk and the accumulation of milk in pregnant women)!" Michelle said frankly: "A few times, I wanted to push Obama directly out of the window... That emotion is too strong."
Michel regards Obama's eight years in power as the "ultimate test" of the marriage relationship between the two.
She said that the biggest feeling of being a "first lady" is that she suddenly needs to be "in a subordinate position" in a marriage relationship.
However, she also said that although she and her husband have experienced emotional ups and downs, the marriage relationship between the two is still very strong. She said: "If you choose to give up in those difficult times, you will not see the beauty of the next good day." Encourage young couples to "don't talk about divorce".
Michelle also shared his views on mate selection, encouraging people to choose the "best partner."
She compared the establishment of an intimate relationship with the formation of an "all-star basketball team", saying: "You have to choose LeBron James (one of the most versatile players in the NBA), not a certain bench player in the third row. . When you get married, you have to dare to say that you are married to James—the James that belongs to you.” For a relationship, she encourages young people to deal with it sincerely and seriously, and be prepared to commit and give, and it is best to avoid casualness. Convenient way to make friends, because "you can't find true love by scratching on the dating software."