What do you know about love puzzles?

Why do we consider that love is blind? The basic principle is that love be a visionary, but rather it grants this grace which is the insight to the lovers. Why do we believe that it obscures vision and does not see the deficiencies of those we love?

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I do not know what prompted a group of young Syrians to choose a journalist who was known to be interested in news of wars and crises to talk to them about love.

Is there an approach between love and war?

It was difficult to refuse, given that most of them are far from his relatives and friends, who misses his listening and advises him.

It was difficult to accept and talk about love and marriage relations is not my specialty.

But for emotional reasons I was defeated and I accepted to give my opinion of love.

In any case, I decided to start the war.

(2)

I first spoke to them about the mysteries of love, for example love is not defined, and if it is necessary, each love case has two definitions of its own. ?

So and so he fell in love, why do we consider that he fell? Why wouldn't he get up? Why do not we say that he got out of the cave of monotony and boredom and that he survived to taste the true taste of life?

Then why basically do we seek definition? Why do we involve philosophy in everything? Why do we insist on introducing feelings to the mill? If you see two flying in love with them, do not search for their balloon or their wings, make you and your partner your balloon, and release your wings.

Then what is this provocative expression: So and so he fell in love, why do we consider that he fell? Why wouldn't he get up? Why do not we say that he got out of the cave of monotony and boredom and that he survived to taste the true taste of life?

Then why do we consider that love is blind? The basic principle is that love be a visionary, but rather it grants this grace which is the insight to the lovers. Why do we believe that it obscures vision and does not see the deficiencies of those we love? Why do we not say that the lover realized the shortcomings of his beloved and was then satisfied with it, as if he says that I have influenced this with its faults on others with their virtues?

Falling and blindness are synonymous with war, the winner and the defeated both.

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How do I make sure that what I am doing is love?

You have to master the art of "managing feelings", if you do not know, do not get involved in it, then this will cost you and your other half project a lot.

You must test your feelings by all possible means, such as asking yourself: is it love or admiration?

Admission may be the beginning of love, but it does not necessarily lead to it.

Try to ask yourself why this particular person? If there are logical answers, such as: he is handsome, she is beautiful, he is from a respectable family, she is created, to the last of these "logical" qualities, then it is not love, it is true that it may lead to marriage, and possibly successful marriage, but it is not Love, love as it has no definition, has no justifiable reasons, sir, I love this person and it is over, there is a language among the souls that our minds do not understand.

Enter yourself in tests. Imagine, for example, that this person will be your companion 30 or 40 years, every day is the last face you see and the first face that you start with, he will be with you when life strikes her strokes, and he will be with you when life presents her gifts, so are you ready in both cases to be This person is your companion?

Don't be distracted by the moment you live in and forget what tomorrow and its obligations will be like.

Listen to your heart after you purify it and purify it, it is your guide on a long journey, a journey that is difficult to find in this time the appropriate companion, our psychological diseases abounded, I am certain that we are not from a healthy person, some diseases are acceptable and possible, and other than that, so what If you find the person your heart beats for him and get stuck with him, rather kidnap him, capture him, never release him, it is a precious piece in this difficult time.

It may be at a young age, or it may be at a later age, it does not matter, the important thing is to relate to it, provided that you have received a firm message from your heart.

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But love comes after marriage, so why does the insistence come first?

Yes, love may come after marriage, or it may not come, so what should you do if it does not come?

How do you face the ferocity and troubles of life and bear the burden of an entire family, and there are only neutral feelings in your heart that they sometimes call "the ten"?

Before recent times, divorce was a frightening thing, which the husbands did not resort to except in the extreme necessity, and this had a positive side which is to maintain the family, and its negative side is that the spouses are forced to spend the rest of their lives in daily distress due to fear of the consequences of divorce on the family and society.

How do you live your daily life with your unbeatable heart and your partner's aspiration not to blossom? How do you live and longing does not torment you when he barely left you for his daily work? How do you not shake your breath when he comes back? How not to be a teenager in his presence even if you are 80 years old?

Without this crazy love, your life would be miserable in the literal sense of the word.

On the other hand, the youth of these days makes it easier for them to marry today, and after months they are separated. The positive is that they do not have to spend the rest of their lives in this stagnant state, but the negative is that they do not make an effort to keep the family, that one or both of them rush to the first love relationship Possible outside the family, the true love that he wished before he was associated with his partner, either under the pressure of traditional marriage, or because he deceived himself, or his feelings deceived him.

In my view, love is a prerequisite for marriage, and this does not mean entering into what is known as prenuptial relations, or spending months and years in a relationship.

All that is required is to beat the heart and send a clear-cut message: this person and nothing else.

Those who believe in the legitimacy and integrity of their war fight to the end, until victory, and those whose hearts vibrate flee from the first blow.

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But what if our feelings suddenly turned, and this love and this passion faded without clear reasons?

There are no guarantees in any matter of life, so why ask for a guarantee in this case? Nothing is guaranteed, dear.

But at least take the reasons, do not exaggerate your perception of the old partner, the angels do not live on the earth, do not build a fictional image and then shock the reality, know the reality before you go into it.

The right partner other than the fictional partner.

Get to know the dark face as you got to know the bright face, and make sure that your heart is still beating after this knowledge? That is, to accept double-sided.

Return to the basic condition that you are good at managing your feelings so that you do not rush to engage and then discover later that it was an illusion.

Do not treat your partner as if you were experiencing an experience, and then later claim that your feelings have reversed, you are not associated with him except with your intention that it is the eternal choice, and with such confidence the soldiers will win the war.

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Should I fight for the other side if the conditions are not right?

I answered the questioner that he would not have asked this question if his love was real and sincere. He would not put the future of his relationship to test and calculations, would he end the relationship or fight to get his companion?

It is not a deal, it may be valid in a traditional marriage, this groom has difficult circumstances, I will wait for another, or this bride is difficult to link with at the moment I will search for me for another.

Who loves never ask this question.

Who loves fights ..

Here he meets love and war.

In wars, a person needs a degree of intelligence to win his opponent, or like ours he wins his opponent

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Can a girl initiate her love affair?

I was surprised by the question, I am an extremist in this regard, why do we claim equality in matters and deny them in matters, why is it shameful for a girl to inform someone of her love?

At the same time, I realize two things: the nature of our societies, on the one hand, and the desire of the girl to feel the significance, and the desire of the other, on the other.

There is a compromise, to show interest in him, perhaps he will notice, if he paid attention and the arrow touched his heart proudly, and if he did not pick up the message then there is no hope.

In wars, a person needs a degree of intelligence to win his opponent, or like ours he wins his opponent.

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Maybe it worked a little in my work on war .. You see, did I succeed in my answers about love?