Do you feel lonely, even though your wife is with you at home, and do you feel that there is a wall between you and her .. There is a high possibility that she started to hate you.
This is not necessarily permanent and deep hatred. Rather, this can be a temporary feeling driven by disappointment, anger, or harm.
Angelina Jubba, an Indian writer on marital relations, says on "Bonobolgy.com", the husband tends to treat his wife as if it were taken for granted, and she develops negative feelings towards her husband at times.
It may seem that everything is normal, but it is not. So if your wife hates you, then these are the most notable signs that you can notice:
They both do not talk: It has all ways of communication between you stopped, and even the continuing bickering and complaining, turned into a terrible silence, and it seems as if they do not even know that you exist.
Do not bother you: , do not ask when to return home, and do not care whether they eat or not, but also over when you return home , you find already slept.
No longer care about their appearance: At first, your wife is trying to wear clothes and colors you prefer to look beautiful in your eyes, but now Valomr otherwise.
No longer smiling while you and see you make them feel depressed or frustrated, as they seem silent and sad when they are next to you.
Avoid spending time with you: but find excuses when they are trying to make up sit down and talk with her, it also feels as if you force them to spend time with you.
Why do you hate you?
If you've noticed previous signs, you should know the reasons for the arrival of your spouse to this case.
Offers writer Sylvia Smith on 15 Sba.kom reason for this:
Accumulation of responsibilities: After marriage, abound responsibilities that must be shared between the spouses, but this may fall on the shoulders of one party without the other 's attention, and this causes serious implications, so consider the extent of the burden on your spouse on a daily basis, and make sure they do not do all Something on its own.
Feel insecure: you may feel insecure about your wife about you, when they spend a lot of time abroad with your friends or your colleagues at work, while you are waiting for you are home alone.
Hate your habits: you may not be your wife hates you in particular, but may hate some of your habits, as it means the marriage of compromise and understanding , try to sit down and talk with them about it rather than continuing these habits without taking into account her feelings.
Snoring: sometimes be small things like snoring cause aversion to your wife, though it was hard to believe, but this is real.
Do not find an opportunity to take care of herself: if your spouse bear all household chores and child - rearing are not allowed to do so to provide the necessary time to take care of herself, it makes them feel negative feelings towards themselves and towards the family.
No longer the man hoped: before marriage, you are emotional and sincere person interested in his professional life and future. Now, it has changed a lot and become someone wasted your life to pursue the things that you reach a dead end.
You can not meet their expectations: may have promised life full of love, happiness and comfort, but now it has changed the conditions have not been able to meet Buaodk have become resigned to the reality of difficult.
No longer love you : This may be because of not spending enough time together as a couple in addition to the boring routine, and the collapse of expectations.
Depression , you may not have to hate your wife you any relationship you personally, but this is due to the sense of depression from something else.
Repeated arguments: when leaving discussions and disagreements without a solution frequently, it leads to resentment and frustration Almetrakman.
Expenses: for as long as the money is the most common cause of marital conflict is problematic, so it 's better agreement with your spouse about the basic rules of spending.
Constant criticism: If you criticize your wife all the time, make sure you'll see signs that indicate that it hates you .
Lack of understanding of her feelings: people differ in their understanding of each other 's feelings, and may properly lead not interpreting the feelings of your wife not you stand next to them, and making them feel that they are alone all the time.
A to allow parents to intervene: external interventions affect marital satisfaction. When you involve your family in all marital decisions you may feel your wife that she is not of importance. Although it must be respected and your parents, there are special things should not Chrkhma them.
To blame them: often, it is easy to point a finger at someone else, and not to ourselves, so blaming your wife is unloved and can lead to anger and bitterness.
Tips and solutions
Start help: Start with the help of your wife at home, and you can wash dishes, and attention to the duties of home for your child, ask her what you can do to help, and told her you acknowledge the weight of the work that you do and want to help them.
As much as its efforts: do not deal with your wife for granted after marriage, and of Amdhaa acknowledged the importance of their presence in your life.
Spend more time with her: spend a good time with your spouse will restore things to normal again.
Talk with her: Talk with your wife and ask her quietly and sympathy if there was something wrong. And perhaps tell you what disturbed and Taatmknan together to resolve the dispute.
Express your love to her , complaining that many wives of men become less romantic after marriage, so he told her how love her every day, and told her about the extent of your happiness even after your marriage of them over the years.