Does a professionally successful woman experience her emotional life?

We sometimes wonder why some women face more difficulties in their emotional lives during the period when their personality is strong and is at the height of their professional and economic giving.

In her report published by the Spanish newspaper, "ABTH", the writer Raquel Alcolea said that the lives of these women are usually characterized by instability between meetings and differences, marital life that is crowned with failure and stories that do not last long.

Love isolation
In his book "Superstar Women Syndrome," psychologist Anthony Bolenchis says that some women live in "romantic isolation" with their social, cultural and professional achievements in their lives.

This isolation is the diagnosis made by psychologist Marital Relations Adviser Anthony Polinches about the emotional reality of a generation of "disappointed women" and "men with frustration."

According to him, these people suffer the consequences of the social changes that they have championed.

The thesis defended by Polenchis is that an important part of successful women lives under the name of "romantic unity" with their social, cultural and professional achievements.

Positive properties .. but!
Conversely, men who have had successes in their lives also seek to find a suitable wife, while the practically successful woman, according to the author of "superwoman syndrome", suffers from finding a suitable husband.

In order to analyze this psychosocial phenomenon of a nature based on what is called sexual intolerance, the psychiatrist has conducted clinical studies in the past four years, collecting data on many cases and testimonies in consultation with them.

He concluded by classifying 112 women as "superwomen" and outlined the factors that caused them in their emotional problems.

"I wondered why these women - who achieved professional and personal distinction - had more difficulty finding their life partner. From there, I began to develop the hypothesis that I proposed in the book," Polenchis says.

Polenchis proposes in his book a continuation, or rather a correction, of the theory of "falling in love" expressed in his other works, until "the new art of falling in love" through which he claimed "the art of falling in love is the art of improvement."

Indeed, the nuance that Polynesis proposes between the two theories is more men than women.

Men and women look at love
Polenchis explains that one of the reasons that explains the difficulties a successful woman faces in her emotional life is that "a woman does not fall in love if she does not like the other person", and that today there are very few men who can be "wonderful" in the eyes of these women Outstanding, according to his opinion.

In addition, the psychologist confirms that another circumstance complicates the situation, which is the fact that "impressive" men are precisely those who benefit from engaging with younger women, and that men want to be admired by women rather than - their - admirers.

Three keys
In another book, entitled "The Secret of Self-Esteem", the psychological expert proposes three tools for change, the first of which is "better acceptance" or internal dialogue, because this dialogue helps in reconciling contradictions and knowing the margin of change that depends on him and what responsibility he can bear during this. Change.

Other tools also include "constructive intelligence" or self-assertive behavior, which prompts us to try to do what we must do to achieve what we want.