Before her first time, at the age of 16, Inès had never talked about sex with her boyfriend, in four months of relationship. What did not stop this moment from being "very natural", tells the teenager at the microphone of Eve Roger, on Europe 1.

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Inès is 17 years old. Her first sexual relationship occurred when she was in a relationship with her boyfriend for four months. If the two had watched pornographic videos on their side, they had never talked about it before approaching this first time. And if she dreaded this particular moment, patience and listening made it go well, as she explained to Eve Roger on Europe 1, Friday.

"My first time, it happened after four months, very naturally, we had not talked about it before because it was not supposed to happen so early, it was really before the act that we started talk about it, ask questions, try to find out if the other person has already done it, we both felt like we wanted to, and that's when We started asking ourselves a lot of questions, and that's when we started to get a little frightened because these things are totally unknown even though I knew how we did that, and I think but it's still something unknown, we girls are always afraid that it's going badly.

I had talked to some of my girlfriends before. My girlfriends had never done it, so they did not know what to say to me. We imagined the thing. It's very scary, because it's not natural.

On our side, before, we had both watched pornographic videos because we do not know how it goes so we want to learn. Thanks to the Internet, we knew. It's very virulent, people find themselves naked at once. One does not feel the love as it could be like in a sexual act.

" For me, the first time was not perfect, because we do not know how to do it, but I thought it was good "

Me, I felt the love because it was my boyfriend and it was done naturally. He was very careful not to hurt me, he often asked me if he was ok, he was trying to be gentle, contrary to what we see in pornographic movies. For me, the first time was not perfect, because we do not know how to do it. But I thought it was good.

For my girlfriends, it did not go so well. We did not talk much about it but I think that their boyfriends have tried to reproduce what they see in pornographic films so they are not soft, they are violent enough, they want to do several positions right away. It's the desire to reproduce to think well.

I talked a lot with my mother and she warned me about contraception. On the other hand, I did not tell him anything about my first time because it was personal, very personal. She knows I've done it before, but I do not talk to her about it. "

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