Some children rebelled against the orders of their parents and their guidance, refusing them advice and guidance, which leads to the occurrence of many educational problems and family clashes, and in this framework a father complains of the behavior of his son in adulthood, as he distanced from him and does not want to hear anything, , Advice is hated, and increased in this age by rebellion and stubbornness, and always sees himself right despite the folly committed by him.
The family counselor, Issa al-Maskari, replies that the child is born in need of a real breast milk, and another moral by the parents of moral education and emotional feelings, so that the feelings of love, tenderness, compassion, protection and containment, for those who wanted to be the real breastfeeding of his mother, The physical comes before weaning two full years, and there is another breastfeeding is educational and educational feeding and tame morals and behavior, and continue this breastfeeding to the age of puberty and does not stop for necessity according to need and destination.
At some point the young man wants to weaning from the parents in adulthood, until he becomes independent able to solve his problems and make his decision and determine the compass of his life, and here show the result, as the education shows the beauty of behavior, and the amount of education shows the maturity of thinking, The future of young people begins from the first infancy, and the end continues with the second breast feeding, which is of great importance in their lives. The mother does the voluntary discharge of her son, but the young man in puberty self-destructs himself from the habit of relying on parents.
We must recognize that the son goes through different stages, the most important stages of adulthood, and most parents begin interest in education and education when the son reaches the age of 13 or 15 years, we tell them that the beginning of attention to this dangerous stage starts from real breastfeeding, And teach him from birth to instinct, honesty, sincerity and self-sufficiency on courage and generosity and monitoring consistent harmony between breastfeeding and breastfeeding.
This is a common mistake, because of the delay in guidance and education. The father or mother resorts to the use of beatings, punishment and deprivation due to laziness, procrastination and neglect in performing the prayer. It is better to start education at an early date. The duration of education is three full years. After that, the punishment may be useful, and most of the children are raised. Early did not find it difficult to guide, He did not need to use any kind of punishment.
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But this does not mean that we neglect education even if the child reaches the age of puberty, but we meet stubbornness to understand the psychological state and physiological changes, and treat the abuse with kindness and wisdom, and deal with the rebellion intelligently and mercifully, we do not despair, but multiply effort, and we end in education, By the people of advice and know-how do not delay in it, and more than the use of God after the inability and trying to see God methods of teaching guidance, and open the doors of insight.