Zahra Magdy
While some men think that they have a sense of comic and personal friendly women reject their behavior towards them, and while the young man sees the same good faith and his words just compliments the girl sees harassment, acceptance or rejection is overlooked by many men, so they need to know what may put them in the circle Charge harassment without feeling.
Sexual harassment is the broadest term in its definitions and includes three categories of unacceptable behavior, one of which is sexual coercion, such as implicit or explicit, to make working conditions or provision of a service conditional on sexual cooperation, the second and most common form of unwanted sexual interest.
The third aspect of harassment is behavior that devalues people on the basis of sex, but has no sexual interest, and includes terms such as derogatory remarks about the body or ridicule of women's physiological changes such as pregnancy, menstrual cycle or excess weight.
| There is no room for goodwill in any behavior related to harassment (social communication) |
Harassment or courtesy .. No room for good faith
You may have noticed that behaviors that have been defined as sexual harassment are mostly common harassment and not sexual interest in the other party. In some situations, it is not a crime or an illegal act, but it needs to be developed into a case according to the law of each country. Here's a set of tips so you do not become a stalker without realizing.
1 - The difference between great harassment and praise, and separate your intention, if your goal is the sense of others to respect and appreciation for them and gain confidence, this is a compliment, but you have to recognize that these compliments condition is the satisfaction of the other party to your words and admiration admiration.
2 - There is a common rule that all women like to hear compliments about their appearance, for example, as a new dress or weight loss, but this region is dangerous and unclear, where it is difficult to distinguish between the sincere praise of the innocent and the wishes of twisted and hidden, so avoid them do not fall In the Chamber of Courtesy of Courtesy.
3 - Some women may not want to hear the words of praise and praise, even gentle ones or what you think is nice, and you should respect this and show your understanding without expressions, such as "I have misunderstood," and "not so beautiful," and "You are reactionary "He said.
4 - If you feel compelled to say something or praise is talking about professional achievements such as hard work and intelligence, because these are important compliments and not interpreted incorrectly.
5. Comments like "You seem to be starting to exercise" or "Have you lost weight?" They are comments that allow for misinterpretations from the other side, because it is an explicit acknowledgment that you are thinking about the physical characteristics of women, and women soon feel that they are an art gallery to be evaluated, which they may accept and reject, as well as comment on makeup, hair or perfume.
| The appearance of women does not give men the right to harass them (social networking sites) |
6 - Do not take a behavior based on guesses, such as judging the degree of acceptance of women to harass their clothes, the appearance of men and women is personal, and the controls vary from one individual to another, not an invitation to be admired or justified to accuse women of responsibility for what is caused by what they wear.
7 - Touch and approach a large extent of women sexual harassment, so do not provide them, and avoid inappropriate physical contact with anyone, because it not only harassing others, but may expose you to the accusation of harassment.
8 - Do not ignore the clear verbal resistance to your actions, such as saying to you "no" or "stop", or "I do not want," respect the desire of others not to hear your words.
9 - It may seem a lot of attempts and courtship and adventure to win the satisfaction of a woman romantic in the movies, but in fact is harassment, the refusal of a woman meeting you is not a demonstration, should not be urged.
10 - Do not deal with strangers as friends or close friends or girlfriends, friendship does not touch and words coming out.
11. Remember that close look, gestures and facial expressions are morally reprehensible behaviors, and even put you in the category of harassment and legal accountability.
12. Finally do not take advantage of your authority or need a lady to help you leverage her.