"Do not be satisfied with the second, you can get everything!" Such positive and motivating slogans are often used to empower women, to show that there are no limits to ambition, and that women do not need to choose between a successful career and a satisfactory family life. But we rarely see the truth behind the tightly orchestrated accounts of Binterest and the smiley faces of these young mothers, many of whom may try to reconcile their responsibilities and maintain the facade.
Sarah Buckley, a mother of three, is also a director of a medical device company, a wife of a worm, who has many other qualities. Sarah decided to put everything on the table through a publication on Facebook, showing how crazy the American society is expecting.
"You have to go back to work eight weeks after the birth of your baby, who spent nine months growing up in your body," Sarah wrote. I return to work before I fully recover or form a bond with my child. You have to focus on work, not on your little child who is sponsored by someone else. " In a list of observations and references to the suffering of working mothers, the American mother says, "Sorry, you do not have leave because you used it all the time to take your children to doctor's appointments or when your children were out of care." She said, "You should go on vacation though . It's good to relax and relax from work, and that makes you a better employee. "
Many women now feel very pressured to rise to these high standards, and to show that hard work, dedication and organizational skills above humanity can make "achieving everything" a fully achievable goal.
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